結束的不美麗的紀念日 - 婚姻
By Hedda
at 2013-01-01T21:30
at 2013-01-01T21:30
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今天是我們的結婚紀念日
雖然因為要顧孩子沒有慶祝,卻也覺得沒什麼
一整天我和老公都像平常一樣開心
晚上,我還練了一下荒廢很久的廚藝(因為老公早上說想吃我煮的飯菜)
以前只要是我下廚 就是老公要洗碗
我用完晚餐後,就去陪孩子玩,只剩公公和老公在吃飯
忙完小朋友的事剛好婆婆回家了,就讓婆婆接手玩小孩
我回到客廳,以為老公已經吃飽飯了,提醒他要洗碗
我也順手幫忙將碗盤拿到水槽放
老公跟著來到廚房,我看他一臉臭樣就問他碗要自己洗還是丟洗碗機
他說隨便不願回答並嚴肅的跟我說要我別一直叫他做東做西,
他吃飽飯想休息一下 不行嗎
我叫他講話別那麼大聲(原意是希望別被公婆聽到,但我後來也沒解釋)
他就怒了~說他哪裡講話大聲
我以為他只是唸一唸而已 繼續整理冰箱
他老大就把碗盤丟著上樓去了,連婆婆請他幫忙端熱茶也回絕
碗盤我默默的洗了 因為我知道沒洗也是婆婆洗 越洗越不高興
後來我們吵架了
他覺得我一直要叫他做事情(買菜,洗碗...)不停的命令他 = =
我認為自己是請他幫忙 語氣沒有命令
買菜也是知道他要出門,請他順路買蔥而已,他沒買回來,我還是自己跑了一趟
他認為自己一整天都沒休息
我覺得他很自私...至少早上他騎著心愛的機車出門閒晃,下午他為愛車洗澡
他只想到自己沒休息,我何嘗不是
吵到婆婆上來勸還在大小聲
婆婆以為我們為了洗碗的事在吵
老公覺得我一直命令他
我覺得老公只想到他自己很自私
這樣的結婚紀念日我難過得大哭
心裡不斷的想這樣的婚姻算什麼 不想孩子以後面對這樣的情況
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