家族聚會的次數 - 婚姻
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2013-01-01T01:45
at 2013-01-01T01:45
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自從我結婚後搬到新環境
就開始脾氣暴躁+有時候憂鬱症(?)上身
其實除了新環境不適應之外(也無法常常回家)
婆家的狀況讓我覺得很煩
最困擾我的是
婆家每週固定禮拜六晚上家族聚會
............
光想到每個禮拜六晚上都固定被綁架
我就很肚爛........
過往快樂的週六晚上 都跟我說掰掰了
老公家是成員很多
但重點是....這個恐怖的聚會不只是老公家人
還有伯父,叔叔等四個大家庭
對我來說真是超級煩煩煩煩煩!!!
有些家庭還有12~20的青少年
我可以理解他們有小孩喜歡大家聚在一起交流的感覺
但我已經30幾歲 真的不喜歡這樣的生活
每個禮拜輪流在幾個家庭吃飯 看不想看的dvd
但因為許多理由 老公無法不參加這樣的聚會
老公的堂兄弟姊妹也很煩
有次我們沒去 居然當眾問我們"有什麼事情比來我家吃飯更重要?"
當時我很尷尬 但心裡很肚爛 因為對我來說任何事情都比去他家吃飯重要!
本週更是誇張 聖誕節也得一起 1/1還要聚眾拜拜
(我不信佛道教 從小沒拜拜過 因此覺得超煩!!!!)
我婆婆還很腦補
這樣還不夠 還希望我跟我老公多回她家吃飯
有沒有搞錯啊!!
我離鄉背井又不是為了跟你們成為一家親
現在我跟我老公也只有週末比較有長時間可以一起出去
雖然我應該會繼續一邊覺得煩一邊參加
還是想請問一下大家
正常可以容忍的家族聚會頻率大概多少?
謝謝!!
btw我在國外所以我回家機率少,因此我心理更加不平衡了
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