怎麼和這樣的妯娌相處? - 婚姻
By Zenobia
at 2012-01-09T16:28
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我第一次覺得她不喜歡我,是明明我在她面前叫她大嫂,她居然掉頭而去當沒看
到,我當下覺得莫名其妙,但也漸漸明白她對我絕無善意。
幾個月前,公婆三十五年結婚紀念時找了間餐廳全家聚餐。因為我和老公坐在公公
旁邊,就和他亂聊,她可能覺得我們聾了,坐在對面的她就和大哥說我們好假。大
哥也是全程臭臉,因為大嫂要他減肥,舉凡炸的肥的都不能吃,偏偏公公點的菜他
有8成都不能吃,結果公公回家後,說點了菜都沒人吃,以後不出去吃了。
上個月,我公公的大哥帶了全家大小從中國來作客,我大哥大嫂買好了禮物要送給
他的孫子,我們後來也買了,結果大嫂去跟公公婆婆說我們故意沒有買給她女兒,
但是我老公一向都有買禮物送她,前一個禮拜才買了一件上衣送小朋友。於是我老
公隔天又去買了個娃娃,特意在我公婆面前送她。
之前我老公和大哥因為停車位的問題起了衝突,大哥幾乎要動手打我老公(前院可
以停兩部車,但出入口只能容一部車,所以停裡面的人進出比較麻煩。最後還是我
們讓步,裡面給他們停,我們自己外面找位置停)所以後來兩兄弟感情不是很好。
有一次,我和老公還有公婆四個人出去吃飯,公公先是問老公你們兄弟有什麼問題
,還說「家和萬事興,知道嗎?」,然後又轉頭問我。我知道心裡就算有再多的不
滿,也不該講,萬一公公到時和對方提起,豈不是變成我們在背後打小報告。
後來我老公又被我公公叫去講話,因為我們那幾天都很晚回家,我老公才說出對於
他們每次偏心大哥一家很不服氣(我們每次說要請他們出去吃飯都被拒絕,只因為
我婆婆要幫他們煮晚餐。所以我們就只能等某天他們不在家吃飯的時候才有機會請
他們吃飯。)公公就說大嫂也和他抱怨說她覺得我很假,只有旁邊有人的時候才會
叫她。我簡直不敢相信她居然說得出這種話,明明每一次都是我叫她,她才會抬頭
看我,我還不是硬著頭皮叫!更讓我失望的是,我公公在我老公和他抱怨大嫂的時
候講出來的,所以我公婆根本就相信她說的話,就好像在說,人家對你老婆也有抱
怨,沒什麼好計較的。
到這種時刻,我真的是放棄了。我沒有辦法再把『一家人』的念頭放在心底了。所
以我開始對我大嫂視而不見,也不想再喊她,寧願做個壞人被他們說話也比較甘願
。結果,她居然開始主動和我打招呼了,可是我心裡害怕極了,不知道她接下來要
耍那一招。
想到過年還要同桌吃飯,就忍不住頭痛了。她主動跟我打招呼,到底是示好的表現
,還是她又在計劃著什麼?
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