先生要到危險國家出差... - 婚姻
By Robert
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其實早就已經習慣老公三不五時到國外出差,
短則一週,長則三個月,從我們交往時就這樣。
好處是可以常體驗到小別勝新婚的感覺,
壞處則是他不在時一切都要靠自己。
也許有版友還記得我以前po文過,老公出差的國家都比較特殊,
敘利亞、黎巴嫩、俄羅斯、烏干達、奈及利亞、杜拜...等,
所以被朋友&版友都笑稱過是軍火商。
(註:他是機械工程師)
雖說習慣他出差,不過每次他一要出國,我還是會擔心,
光是算他正在坐飛機的時間,
我就要一再在心裡念經直到他抵達後打電話回報才會安心。
這次大約在12月底時,他告訴我公司要派他在過年前去葉門出差一週,
葉門他不是沒去過,但都是在"正常"情況下去的,
最近葉門局勢非常動盪不安,連總統都跑去美國躲,國際機場也一度關閉。
我同事參加的教會,他們的宣教士說自己是最後一批逃出葉門的華人。
(對方是用"逃"這個字無誤)
為了確定,我上外交部網站查,葉門狀況是【紅色警戒:不宜前往】。
老公在隔天要跟公司業務部溝通之前,也直接打了電話給外交部詢問,
一樣得到近期不建議前往的訊息。
他把訊息回饋給公司,業務部的主管非常不甘願的說他會再去跟葉門廠商談一談。
一直到1/5都沒消沒息,似乎可以確定不用去了,
結果,1/6尾牙結束,1/7老公跟我說他1/11要出發去葉門,
因為業務部收到葉門廠商回傳的資料,說自己國內情勢沒那麼糟之類的。
我這兩天假日幾乎是失眠、睡不好,
完全不知道該怎麼做。
老公不希望我打電話去他們公司,
我知道他們老闆最近因為員工要求週休二日的事情心情不好想找人開刀。
(雖然最後准了2012有週休二日,但大老闆心情不佳)
所以他不願意在這種關頭上被公司有藉口處份他。
但我難過的點在於他沒有把自己安全放第一,
他有老婆有小孩,就算我也有在工作、有在賺錢,但他還是家庭的支柱。
不是沒有跟他再溝通,
但他覺得現階段不適合再抗拒公司的安排,除非打定主意要離職。
於是好像我也只剩下妥協這條路。
想了兩晚,昨晚寫信到勞工局,沒寫他們公司的名稱,
只是詢問如果遇到公司要派去紅色警戒的國家出差,員工有沒有拒絕權利?
拒絕後公司是否可以用這個理由開除?
這樣問,好像只是種垂死掙扎、死馬當活馬醫,
因為就算勞工局說你可以拒絕、公司不能開除你,
但私人公司要開除你可用理由太多了!
唉...
寫到最後好像只是吐苦水,無解。
就當我是來要拍拍的好了!(再嘆)
p.s保險還不賠戰爭呢...!(苦笑)
--
1/11回報一下最新消息
因為葉門廠商"似乎"訂不到過年前回來的機票
所以"目前"的風聲是延到過完年再去
--
短則一週,長則三個月,從我們交往時就這樣。
好處是可以常體驗到小別勝新婚的感覺,
壞處則是他不在時一切都要靠自己。
也許有版友還記得我以前po文過,老公出差的國家都比較特殊,
敘利亞、黎巴嫩、俄羅斯、烏干達、奈及利亞、杜拜...等,
所以被朋友&版友都笑稱過是軍火商。
(註:他是機械工程師)
雖說習慣他出差,不過每次他一要出國,我還是會擔心,
光是算他正在坐飛機的時間,
我就要一再在心裡念經直到他抵達後打電話回報才會安心。
這次大約在12月底時,他告訴我公司要派他在過年前去葉門出差一週,
葉門他不是沒去過,但都是在"正常"情況下去的,
最近葉門局勢非常動盪不安,連總統都跑去美國躲,國際機場也一度關閉。
我同事參加的教會,他們的宣教士說自己是最後一批逃出葉門的華人。
(對方是用"逃"這個字無誤)
為了確定,我上外交部網站查,葉門狀況是【紅色警戒:不宜前往】。
老公在隔天要跟公司業務部溝通之前,也直接打了電話給外交部詢問,
一樣得到近期不建議前往的訊息。
他把訊息回饋給公司,業務部的主管非常不甘願的說他會再去跟葉門廠商談一談。
一直到1/5都沒消沒息,似乎可以確定不用去了,
結果,1/6尾牙結束,1/7老公跟我說他1/11要出發去葉門,
因為業務部收到葉門廠商回傳的資料,說自己國內情勢沒那麼糟之類的。
我這兩天假日幾乎是失眠、睡不好,
完全不知道該怎麼做。
老公不希望我打電話去他們公司,
我知道他們老闆最近因為員工要求週休二日的事情心情不好想找人開刀。
(雖然最後准了2012有週休二日,但大老闆心情不佳)
所以他不願意在這種關頭上被公司有藉口處份他。
但我難過的點在於他沒有把自己安全放第一,
他有老婆有小孩,就算我也有在工作、有在賺錢,但他還是家庭的支柱。
不是沒有跟他再溝通,
但他覺得現階段不適合再抗拒公司的安排,除非打定主意要離職。
於是好像我也只剩下妥協這條路。
想了兩晚,昨晚寫信到勞工局,沒寫他們公司的名稱,
只是詢問如果遇到公司要派去紅色警戒的國家出差,員工有沒有拒絕權利?
拒絕後公司是否可以用這個理由開除?
這樣問,好像只是種垂死掙扎、死馬當活馬醫,
因為就算勞工局說你可以拒絕、公司不能開除你,
但私人公司要開除你可用理由太多了!
唉...
寫到最後好像只是吐苦水,無解。
就當我是來要拍拍的好了!(再嘆)
p.s保險還不賠戰爭呢...!(苦笑)
--
1/11回報一下最新消息
因為葉門廠商"似乎"訂不到過年前回來的機票
所以"目前"的風聲是延到過完年再去
--
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