家有新成員 - 婚姻
By Audriana
at 2012-01-08T18:00
at 2012-01-08T18:00
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12月時跟老公一起回台灣處理結婚補請等雜事
發現我跟公婆&新親戚相處真的很容易爆氣
我在想是我太小氣還沒準備好要融入他們家,還是某些人真的太白目
事件一
有次公公單獨跟我在客廳看賓客名單
說著說著突然間又說:這個X伯伯以前超喜歡我老公,很想讓她當女婿耶
只可惜跟他兩個女兒不來電, 又自顧自的說他是銀行經理,家裡很有錢之類的
還有他女兒這次也會來, 說要看看哥哥是娶的什麼女人! (這啥??)
當下我並沒有回嘴, 但內心大爆炸, 這老人家也白目的太過分了吧!
話說當時訂婚宴時他也有請這位伯伯過來, 在宴席上直接介紹這位伯伯很欣賞我老公
很想要他當女婿喔!! 當時宴席結束我也跟我老公OOXX了一番
說你爸可以再給我誇張一點
老公當然只能很可憐的被我單方面大罵, 他也無法控制他爸阿:P
事件二
先前有在版上抱怨過小姑出面干預我產檢一事
回去後第一件事就是去了婆婆推薦的醫院做產檢
因為她跟院長熟識的關係, 所以大家被院長一起邀請進產檢室
我就這樣光著肚皮跟肚子裡的寶寶被大家指指點點
因為我娘家媽媽後來也被請進去一起觀賞超音波
所以這件事就算了
大家看到寶寶都很開心就好了
誰又會care我覺得不受到尊重這件事呢~~~???
事件三
公婆幾乎每兩三天就會提一次: 以後寶寶出生後我們把他帶回台灣幫你帶好了
第一次我天真的回應說不用了, 我跟老公自己可以照顧
他們就會提出說我們沒經驗, 上班很累沒時間等的因素要我把孩子給他們
但是,凡事都有第一次, 為什麼要把我們當父母的權利給剝奪?
我相信我們也能夠當好爸爸好媽媽的
憑什麼一定要我把孩子送回台灣讓兩老照顧??
身邊的朋友也都是這樣過來的, 我相信我們也可以!
重點是我不想跟寶寶離半個地球遠阿 >"<
接下來只要一提到與寶寶有關話題就會自動跳針到我們想照顧孫子
然後又再重複講一次
我知道公婆是疼愛孫子的心情, 但是....
謝謝大家聽我啦哩啦紮的抱怨
最近心情實在太複雜了呀~~~
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發現我跟公婆&新親戚相處真的很容易爆氣
我在想是我太小氣還沒準備好要融入他們家,還是某些人真的太白目
事件一
有次公公單獨跟我在客廳看賓客名單
說著說著突然間又說:這個X伯伯以前超喜歡我老公,很想讓她當女婿耶
只可惜跟他兩個女兒不來電, 又自顧自的說他是銀行經理,家裡很有錢之類的
還有他女兒這次也會來, 說要看看哥哥是娶的什麼女人! (這啥??)
當下我並沒有回嘴, 但內心大爆炸, 這老人家也白目的太過分了吧!
話說當時訂婚宴時他也有請這位伯伯過來, 在宴席上直接介紹這位伯伯很欣賞我老公
很想要他當女婿喔!! 當時宴席結束我也跟我老公OOXX了一番
說你爸可以再給我誇張一點
老公當然只能很可憐的被我單方面大罵, 他也無法控制他爸阿:P
事件二
先前有在版上抱怨過小姑出面干預我產檢一事
回去後第一件事就是去了婆婆推薦的醫院做產檢
因為她跟院長熟識的關係, 所以大家被院長一起邀請進產檢室
我就這樣光著肚皮跟肚子裡的寶寶被大家指指點點
因為我娘家媽媽後來也被請進去一起觀賞超音波
所以這件事就算了
大家看到寶寶都很開心就好了
誰又會care我覺得不受到尊重這件事呢~~~???
事件三
公婆幾乎每兩三天就會提一次: 以後寶寶出生後我們把他帶回台灣幫你帶好了
第一次我天真的回應說不用了, 我跟老公自己可以照顧
他們就會提出說我們沒經驗, 上班很累沒時間等的因素要我把孩子給他們
但是,凡事都有第一次, 為什麼要把我們當父母的權利給剝奪?
我相信我們也能夠當好爸爸好媽媽的
憑什麼一定要我把孩子送回台灣讓兩老照顧??
身邊的朋友也都是這樣過來的, 我相信我們也可以!
重點是我不想跟寶寶離半個地球遠阿 >"<
接下來只要一提到與寶寶有關話題就會自動跳針到我們想照顧孫子
然後又再重複講一次
我知道公婆是疼愛孫子的心情, 但是....
謝謝大家聽我啦哩啦紮的抱怨
最近心情實在太複雜了呀~~~
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