婆婆的好意該怎麼拒絕 - 婚姻
By Valerie
at 2011-10-21T09:32
at 2011-10-21T09:32
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※ 引述《brillante (相思花瓣)》之銘言:
: ※ 引述《sweetiewin (我要加油)》之銘言:
: : 然後,她就不開心了
: : 說我懷孕這個也不吃,那個也不吃
: : 隨便妳啦!
: : 我知道婆婆都是一番好意
: 我不覺得這是好意。逼迫他人接受的「好意」都不算是好意。
: 正常人會因為有人告訴自己說「抱歉我有忌諱不吃這個」而生氣的嗎?
: 這是不尊重,而且也太自我中心了。她是為了誰在勸吃呢?
: 為了自己?還是真的為了孕婦與胎兒?
重點在於,食物是華人用來連絡感情的一種重要手段
夾菜、敬酒、送水果禮盒、勸吃菜等文化......背後的目的都是建立感情
不過這種傳統文化在現代社會開始漸漸消失了
年輕一輩的人重視自我個體大於重視家族情感
很多年輕人視長輩的「好意」為騷擾
所以各位其實不用爭論是非對錯
一切都是文化差異
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: ※ 引述《sweetiewin (我要加油)》之銘言:
: : 然後,她就不開心了
: : 說我懷孕這個也不吃,那個也不吃
: : 隨便妳啦!
: : 我知道婆婆都是一番好意
: 我不覺得這是好意。逼迫他人接受的「好意」都不算是好意。
: 正常人會因為有人告訴自己說「抱歉我有忌諱不吃這個」而生氣的嗎?
: 這是不尊重,而且也太自我中心了。她是為了誰在勸吃呢?
: 為了自己?還是真的為了孕婦與胎兒?
重點在於,食物是華人用來連絡感情的一種重要手段
夾菜、敬酒、送水果禮盒、勸吃菜等文化......背後的目的都是建立感情
不過這種傳統文化在現代社會開始漸漸消失了
年輕一輩的人重視自我個體大於重視家族情感
很多年輕人視長輩的「好意」為騷擾
所以各位其實不用爭論是非對錯
一切都是文化差異
--
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