有理也說不清 - 婚姻
By Zora
at 2011-10-21T00:25
at 2011-10-21T00:25
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我老公有一個出嫁的姊姊
之前我們處得算還不錯
因為也不常見面
大概就是有連續假期會在婆家聚餐~偶而出個遊這樣
我和老公之間的FACEBOOK帳號密碼都是公開的
所以我老公用我的帳號開遊戲分身或是加好友我從來不覺得怎樣
玩了臉書一陣子我老公有一天自己開我帳號加了我大姑跟大姑的老公為好友
那時我只覺得有些悄悄話變不方便說了
但也沒有很介意
直到今年的國慶日連假結束
因為跟大姑一家出遊
他們買了一台新的單眼相機
拍了許多我們出去玩的照片
也發布到臉書上
我因為懷孕發胖不少~也不喜歡被標籤出來
大姑在沒先問過我的情形下標籤許多張我的照片
而且每張表情都很奇怪~都是隨意拍那種突然被照到的表情
這也就算了
我自己也有貼一些我拍的照片但沒標籤任何人上去
(我覺得在標籤任何朋友之前先詢問是一種基本禮貌)
大姑還在我貼的照片下面留言
"舅媽的拍照技術要改進了"
真的是~~~不知道是我現在懷孕情緒比較易怒還怎樣
我就爆氣了
我在我的臉書上寫著
"I don't like be tagged without asking me first"
才發表沒幾分鐘我老公就跑來罵我了
說我不把他姐姐當家人
把家裡的私事寫在臉書上是想讓大家看笑話嗎?
我上去一看~
我大姑回我一句SORRY
然後跑去跟我老公說原來家人的感情僅僅如此
他很失望~以後不會再來麻煩我們任何事了
我當下也是生氣的回我老公說
我寫這些東西誰知道是我們家的私事?
只有對號入座的人吧
臉書不能寫發洩情緒的言語?
那當初他就不要私自開我帳號家他的家人進來
我沒怪他不尊重我先亂加好友
他反而要怪我得罪他的家人
我老公非常重視他家的人
所以他覺得今天我講這些話就是對他姊姊不敬
以後回婆家遇到會很難堪
非要我先低頭向他姐姐道歉
否則他連離婚都列入考慮
我不想為了這種芝麻小事繼續爭吵
當下就在臉書上跟他姐姐道歉
並刪了我那句話
隔幾天我就把大姑跟大姑的老公加入限制的名單中
畢竟我講甚麼話都要擔心有人來對號入座太累了
直接刪他好友又太明顯
而且之前我大姑連我的好友名單有誰他也會加
我不知道他用意何在
也許是玩遊戲想衝人數
這陣子我妹失戀有些心事會寫在臉書上
我大姑還跑來叫我要多勸我妹~BLAHBLAH~~
我整個感覺超差的
自己的妹妹我難道不會主動關心嗎?被一個婆家的親戚問這些私事感覺真的很不好
感覺他吃飽沒事都在關心臉書上每個人的一舉一動
剛剛又收到他的留言叫我乾脆刪他好友算了
因為他知道我把他放到被限制的名單裡
(不知道他又是怎麼發現的?)
他就說得好像我很愛記恨一樣
不把他當家人
實在是~~~~
我本來就不想破壞我跟大姑之間唯妙的平衡了
才把他列入限制名單
怕他又對號入座
現在他吃飽太閒又來叫我乾脆刪他好友
不知道明天他要怎麼跟我老公抱怨
好煩那!!!!
--
之前我們處得算還不錯
因為也不常見面
大概就是有連續假期會在婆家聚餐~偶而出個遊這樣
我和老公之間的FACEBOOK帳號密碼都是公開的
所以我老公用我的帳號開遊戲分身或是加好友我從來不覺得怎樣
玩了臉書一陣子我老公有一天自己開我帳號加了我大姑跟大姑的老公為好友
那時我只覺得有些悄悄話變不方便說了
但也沒有很介意
直到今年的國慶日連假結束
因為跟大姑一家出遊
他們買了一台新的單眼相機
拍了許多我們出去玩的照片
也發布到臉書上
我因為懷孕發胖不少~也不喜歡被標籤出來
大姑在沒先問過我的情形下標籤許多張我的照片
而且每張表情都很奇怪~都是隨意拍那種突然被照到的表情
這也就算了
我自己也有貼一些我拍的照片但沒標籤任何人上去
(我覺得在標籤任何朋友之前先詢問是一種基本禮貌)
大姑還在我貼的照片下面留言
"舅媽的拍照技術要改進了"
真的是~~~不知道是我現在懷孕情緒比較易怒還怎樣
我就爆氣了
我在我的臉書上寫著
"I don't like be tagged without asking me first"
才發表沒幾分鐘我老公就跑來罵我了
說我不把他姐姐當家人
把家裡的私事寫在臉書上是想讓大家看笑話嗎?
我上去一看~
我大姑回我一句SORRY
然後跑去跟我老公說原來家人的感情僅僅如此
他很失望~以後不會再來麻煩我們任何事了
我當下也是生氣的回我老公說
我寫這些東西誰知道是我們家的私事?
只有對號入座的人吧
臉書不能寫發洩情緒的言語?
那當初他就不要私自開我帳號家他的家人進來
我沒怪他不尊重我先亂加好友
他反而要怪我得罪他的家人
我老公非常重視他家的人
所以他覺得今天我講這些話就是對他姊姊不敬
以後回婆家遇到會很難堪
非要我先低頭向他姐姐道歉
否則他連離婚都列入考慮
我不想為了這種芝麻小事繼續爭吵
當下就在臉書上跟他姐姐道歉
並刪了我那句話
隔幾天我就把大姑跟大姑的老公加入限制的名單中
畢竟我講甚麼話都要擔心有人來對號入座太累了
直接刪他好友又太明顯
而且之前我大姑連我的好友名單有誰他也會加
我不知道他用意何在
也許是玩遊戲想衝人數
這陣子我妹失戀有些心事會寫在臉書上
我大姑還跑來叫我要多勸我妹~BLAHBLAH~~
我整個感覺超差的
自己的妹妹我難道不會主動關心嗎?被一個婆家的親戚問這些私事感覺真的很不好
感覺他吃飽沒事都在關心臉書上每個人的一舉一動
剛剛又收到他的留言叫我乾脆刪他好友算了
因為他知道我把他放到被限制的名單裡
(不知道他又是怎麼發現的?)
他就說得好像我很愛記恨一樣
不把他當家人
實在是~~~~
我本來就不想破壞我跟大姑之間唯妙的平衡了
才把他列入限制名單
怕他又對號入座
現在他吃飽太閒又來叫我乾脆刪他好友
不知道明天他要怎麼跟我老公抱怨
好煩那!!!!
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