Re: 男友婚前急買房 我該跟進嗎 - 婚姻
By Skylar Davis
at 2023-04-24T21:59
at 2023-04-24T21:59
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※ 引述《russk (russk)》之銘言:
: 我是原po
: 這件事情已經發生兩個禮拜
: 他是在我出差不在家的那一個禮拜把房子簽了
: 他只有簡單的問我喜歡什麼地段
: 格局圖也是簽約後才給我看的
: 很多人質疑為何不問清楚他要婚前買房
: 因為我知道這是他非常在意的點 男生個性強勢
: 離過一次婚有小孩 對於自己的錢非常保護
: 交往期間我們也都AA
: 所以關於他的錢 我沒有過問過
: 婚事決定暫緩 列入留校察看
: 謝謝各位的提點..
: ※ 引述《GunOfWind (問世間情為何物)》之銘言:
: : 都要結婚了 為啥不問對方想甚麼
: : 這種事情正反兩面看都有可能阿
: : 反:
: : 因為婚前財產算個人的 離婚不用平分
: : 正:
: : 因為要結婚了 想要有個房子好讓老婆安心 也好去跟岳父母提親
: : 婚姻又不是兒戲 沒有討論 沒有溝通
: : 再怎麼愛婚後也會有問題
我看這篇蠻匪夷所思的
可能你本來就對他很不信任吧
房產本來就是財務投資工具之一
只是多數人感情上因為居住關係
所以對房子的感受複雜化了
我覺得你不用想太多的憂慮是:
1.婚前投資本來就是個人自由
你硬要往陰謀論方向思考,
用你的模式無限上綱的話,
那他買個勞力士給自己,買個跑車給自己開,都是在避免你搶他財產?
再誇張點,他結婚前買一杯珍奶沒分你喝,也是在減少他財產被搶嗎?
2.房子買了可存錢可租人可賣,進可攻退可守,是一個非常棒的工具。
如果照你的邏輯所有要買房子的男人都要等到結婚後才買,
那些投資房子的人永遠不用結婚了,像我每年固定至少買一間賣1間,如果要等到結婚後
才做這件事,不知道錯過多少賺錢的機會了。
最後我想說的是,
如果還沒結婚前就在為了財產互相算計,甚至為了還不是自己的財產在擔憂,搞到分手,
那真的還蠻可悲的,其實分一分也好。
--
: 我是原po
: 這件事情已經發生兩個禮拜
: 他是在我出差不在家的那一個禮拜把房子簽了
: 他只有簡單的問我喜歡什麼地段
: 格局圖也是簽約後才給我看的
: 很多人質疑為何不問清楚他要婚前買房
: 因為我知道這是他非常在意的點 男生個性強勢
: 離過一次婚有小孩 對於自己的錢非常保護
: 交往期間我們也都AA
: 所以關於他的錢 我沒有過問過
: 婚事決定暫緩 列入留校察看
: 謝謝各位的提點..
: ※ 引述《GunOfWind (問世間情為何物)》之銘言:
: : 都要結婚了 為啥不問對方想甚麼
: : 這種事情正反兩面看都有可能阿
: : 反:
: : 因為婚前財產算個人的 離婚不用平分
: : 正:
: : 因為要結婚了 想要有個房子好讓老婆安心 也好去跟岳父母提親
: : 婚姻又不是兒戲 沒有討論 沒有溝通
: : 再怎麼愛婚後也會有問題
我看這篇蠻匪夷所思的
可能你本來就對他很不信任吧
房產本來就是財務投資工具之一
只是多數人感情上因為居住關係
所以對房子的感受複雜化了
我覺得你不用想太多的憂慮是:
1.婚前投資本來就是個人自由
你硬要往陰謀論方向思考,
用你的模式無限上綱的話,
那他買個勞力士給自己,買個跑車給自己開,都是在避免你搶他財產?
再誇張點,他結婚前買一杯珍奶沒分你喝,也是在減少他財產被搶嗎?
2.房子買了可存錢可租人可賣,進可攻退可守,是一個非常棒的工具。
如果照你的邏輯所有要買房子的男人都要等到結婚後才買,
那些投資房子的人永遠不用結婚了,像我每年固定至少買一間賣1間,如果要等到結婚後
才做這件事,不知道錯過多少賺錢的機會了。
最後我想說的是,
如果還沒結婚前就在為了財產互相算計,甚至為了還不是自己的財產在擔憂,搞到分手,
那真的還蠻可悲的,其實分一分也好。
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