Re: 婚前買房共識與生活開支 - 婚姻
By Carol
at 2023-04-24T13:17
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※ 引述《s0901919 (Yu)》之銘言:
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雙方有預計要結婚,並希望有小孩,婚後需要與長輩同住,男方家因為房間不夠的關係這
陣子積極看房子,因為我沒拿頭期也不打算幫忙背貸款,所以如果買房的話貸款由男方一
人負擔,我不打算買房,甚至覺得一輩子租房子不錯,我提議過還是先租房子,等能力夠
再來考慮買房子,但是被用現在不買之後更買不起的理由否決掉了。現在看的符合他理想
的房子,房貸大概會佔了他薪水的絕大多數,詢問過他之後如果結婚的生活開支,他是表
示他爸媽不需要他養,未來同住家裡水電瓦斯爸媽會負擔,他繳完房貸每天領200生活費
,其他交給我(大概剩下4000-6000)不足的部分
: 我再貼,一陣茫然不知道是我太自私需要調整自己互相扶持的想法還是被話術了
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如果要討論這個,至少要給個薪水大概跟房貸來估算阿
不同的房貸、薪水 會差很多
先就結論來說
付完房貸 剩大概 10000~12000
假如房貸是25000 頭期款大概是200W吧
薪水實拿37000左右 (加勞健保可能到四萬)
個人認為沒問題啊
有問題的是 你們對於結婚之後的金錢管理想法吧
你不肯背貸款跟出頭期款 但願意租房子 那就每個月繳房租阿
如果以台北來說 一個人的套房也要1w以上吧
也就是說 扣掉他個人生活費 他實際上給的家用有1w4~1w6
那你呢? 如果你也給1w4~1w6 家用部分兩個人加起來大概三萬
省著點用沒問題啊??
唯一問題可能是
你會覺得為啥你要為了"他想買房"這件事情 讓自己"生活品質下降"
先釐清你心中覺得不公平不滿的點在哪裡 比較好去決定討論雙方的價值觀差異吧
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雙方有預計要結婚,並希望有小孩,婚後需要與長輩同住,男方家因為房間不夠的關係這
陣子積極看房子,因為我沒拿頭期也不打算幫忙背貸款,所以如果買房的話貸款由男方一
人負擔,我不打算買房,甚至覺得一輩子租房子不錯,我提議過還是先租房子,等能力夠
再來考慮買房子,但是被用現在不買之後更買不起的理由否決掉了。現在看的符合他理想
的房子,房貸大概會佔了他薪水的絕大多數,詢問過他之後如果結婚的生活開支,他是表
示他爸媽不需要他養,未來同住家裡水電瓦斯爸媽會負擔,他繳完房貸每天領200生活費
,其他交給我(大概剩下4000-6000)不足的部分
: 我再貼,一陣茫然不知道是我太自私需要調整自己互相扶持的想法還是被話術了
: -----
: Sent from JPTT on my iPhone
如果要討論這個,至少要給個薪水大概跟房貸來估算阿
不同的房貸、薪水 會差很多
先就結論來說
付完房貸 剩大概 10000~12000
假如房貸是25000 頭期款大概是200W吧
薪水實拿37000左右 (加勞健保可能到四萬)
個人認為沒問題啊
有問題的是 你們對於結婚之後的金錢管理想法吧
你不肯背貸款跟出頭期款 但願意租房子 那就每個月繳房租阿
如果以台北來說 一個人的套房也要1w以上吧
也就是說 扣掉他個人生活費 他實際上給的家用有1w4~1w6
那你呢? 如果你也給1w4~1w6 家用部分兩個人加起來大概三萬
省著點用沒問題啊??
唯一問題可能是
你會覺得為啥你要為了"他想買房"這件事情 讓自己"生活品質下降"
先釐清你心中覺得不公平不滿的點在哪裡 比較好去決定討論雙方的價值觀差異吧
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