除夕/初一 回娘家 - 婚姻
By Sandy
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※ 引述《fusheena (Sheena)》之銘言:
: 今年是我第一次在婆家過年~
: 因為婆家和我娘家車程只有十分鐘~
: 我原本預計在婆家吃完年夜飯,幫忙完和大家聊天後,想要回娘家打麻將
: (我娘家習俗就是打麻將,一年就這麼一次,和大家打牌)
: 但今天婆婆提醒我說,如果除夕和初一回娘家,那麼我弟弟會倒楣,福氣會被我帶走
: 所以吩咐我千萬不能回去 0_0
: 請問一下大家,大家也有這種習俗嗎? 冏~~~~~~~~
我覺得這習俗是重男輕女觀念來的,
因為除夕是一家人團聚的節日,
但是女兒嫁[出去],所以不能算一家人.
若算一家人那就要跟兄弟分財產了.
這是父權社會不允許的,而且兄弟的錢真的被瓜分了啊......
妳婆婆或許真的是好意的這樣想......
不過這還要看她對自己女兒的態度.
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: 今年是我第一次在婆家過年~
: 因為婆家和我娘家車程只有十分鐘~
: 我原本預計在婆家吃完年夜飯,幫忙完和大家聊天後,想要回娘家打麻將
: (我娘家習俗就是打麻將,一年就這麼一次,和大家打牌)
: 但今天婆婆提醒我說,如果除夕和初一回娘家,那麼我弟弟會倒楣,福氣會被我帶走
: 所以吩咐我千萬不能回去 0_0
: 請問一下大家,大家也有這種習俗嗎? 冏~~~~~~~~
我覺得這習俗是重男輕女觀念來的,
因為除夕是一家人團聚的節日,
但是女兒嫁[出去],所以不能算一家人.
若算一家人那就要跟兄弟分財產了.
這是父權社會不允許的,而且兄弟的錢真的被瓜分了啊......
妳婆婆或許真的是好意的這樣想......
不過這還要看她對自己女兒的態度.
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