我們真的很自私嗎? - 婚姻
By Olive
at 2013-01-20T23:55
at 2013-01-20T23:55
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我真的很苦惱...
身在局中的我有些看不清事情
也許是想上來討拍
或者想了解我們夫妻倆到底自不自私
事情是...
我們家中的成員有公公、婆婆、阿姨(婆婆的妹妹未嫁沒子)、我、老公、女兒*1
家中是經營工廠
大家都一同工作
目前是阿姨掌管經濟大權
公公是工廠老闆
家中的開銷水電拉、健保費等等等都不用我們夫妻出、由工廠所賺支出
我跟我老公一個月薪水1人6000
我們倆的花費就花在女兒身上吧
奶粉尿布衣服哩哩叩叩
老實說一個月12000實在不夠
但還好有在經營網拍
網拍的收入由我們實拿,不用交付本錢
讓我們這兩年大約有30多萬的存款
但網拍時好時壞,其實每個月收入都不一定
這30萬也算是省吃儉用存下來的
然而家中目前尚有貸款100多萬吧(以前公公投資失敗負債3000萬還到剩100多)
以上是家中大致情況
事情是
老公認為,網拍賺的錢才是我們自己的錢,所以做網拍的訂單顯得積極
做工廠訂單時,心態轉成:是在幫"老輝阿"打拼
公公跟阿姨繳很多保險
勞保也保最高
曾嗆我老公:我老了也不用靠你養
阿姨口上說都是為了我們才做工廠,不然他們早退休了
口口聲聲說一家人
把我們當自己的小孩
但有時候感覺還是會計較
不高興的時候就威脅我們說要跟我們收成本(其實已是比交給中盤商的價格還要高,他自己還賺一手)
之前也說:賺都賺你們的花都花我的
(心想不知誰才愛計較)
總是跟我老公說:你是獨子,這些以後都你們的,不要那們愛計較,會因小而失大
要是再這樣,說不定我們甚麼也拿不到
感覺老是以家產來威脅我們感覺很差,我們跟不寄望他們留下甚麼
不要負債就不錯了
但是我們也都有做工廠的工作
而且老人體力有限,現在大多都是我跟老公在做比較多
有時我老公會想:阿一個月是領你多少?那些負債是我搞的嗎?
而且講難聽點,以後會怎樣其實很難說
我倆是想為自己先做點準備,有些積蓄以防萬一
而且我們的小孩才1歲半
但他們卻認為我們網拍有賺錢
過太爽、愛享受,所以對於他們的訂單都要做不做的
但要是我們不做網拍,一個月12000怎麼活
說我們心腸太小,愛計較
所以我不懂,真是我們倆錯了嗎?
還是我們應幫家中支出,拿成本出來(高於中盤商的交貨價)
到底是誰愛計較?
--
身在局中的我有些看不清事情
也許是想上來討拍
或者想了解我們夫妻倆到底自不自私
事情是...
我們家中的成員有公公、婆婆、阿姨(婆婆的妹妹未嫁沒子)、我、老公、女兒*1
家中是經營工廠
大家都一同工作
目前是阿姨掌管經濟大權
公公是工廠老闆
家中的開銷水電拉、健保費等等等都不用我們夫妻出、由工廠所賺支出
我跟我老公一個月薪水1人6000
我們倆的花費就花在女兒身上吧
奶粉尿布衣服哩哩叩叩
老實說一個月12000實在不夠
但還好有在經營網拍
網拍的收入由我們實拿,不用交付本錢
讓我們這兩年大約有30多萬的存款
但網拍時好時壞,其實每個月收入都不一定
這30萬也算是省吃儉用存下來的
然而家中目前尚有貸款100多萬吧(以前公公投資失敗負債3000萬還到剩100多)
以上是家中大致情況
事情是
老公認為,網拍賺的錢才是我們自己的錢,所以做網拍的訂單顯得積極
做工廠訂單時,心態轉成:是在幫"老輝阿"打拼
公公跟阿姨繳很多保險
勞保也保最高
曾嗆我老公:我老了也不用靠你養
阿姨口上說都是為了我們才做工廠,不然他們早退休了
口口聲聲說一家人
把我們當自己的小孩
但有時候感覺還是會計較
不高興的時候就威脅我們說要跟我們收成本(其實已是比交給中盤商的價格還要高,他自己還賺一手)
之前也說:賺都賺你們的花都花我的
(心想不知誰才愛計較)
總是跟我老公說:你是獨子,這些以後都你們的,不要那們愛計較,會因小而失大
要是再這樣,說不定我們甚麼也拿不到
感覺老是以家產來威脅我們感覺很差,我們跟不寄望他們留下甚麼
不要負債就不錯了
但是我們也都有做工廠的工作
而且老人體力有限,現在大多都是我跟老公在做比較多
有時我老公會想:阿一個月是領你多少?那些負債是我搞的嗎?
而且講難聽點,以後會怎樣其實很難說
我倆是想為自己先做點準備,有些積蓄以防萬一
而且我們的小孩才1歲半
但他們卻認為我們網拍有賺錢
過太爽、愛享受,所以對於他們的訂單都要做不做的
但要是我們不做網拍,一個月12000怎麼活
說我們心腸太小,愛計較
所以我不懂,真是我們倆錯了嗎?
還是我們應幫家中支出,拿成本出來(高於中盤商的交貨價)
到底是誰愛計較?
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