貓咪與小姑 - 婚姻
By Hazel
at 2011-11-23T14:47
at 2011-11-23T14:47
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※ 引述《antiyahoo (今生無悔...............)》之銘言:
: 房子沒出錢不代表沒決定權
: 其他版友都是這樣夫妻錢分那麼清的嗎
: 既然結婚了還這樣嗎?
講個題外話,說到「沒錢沒決定權」這種事,板上講講可以,最好別對自己另一半說
因為那很傷人
打個比方吧,有的板友已經有小孩,有的可能還很小,有的可能已經上小學,有自己的
意見,但有可能跟你意見不同,例如養狗或什麼的
今天如果你對你的小孩說「房子是我買的,不爽可以搬出去」,你覺得會不會很傷人?
可能你會說「不會啊,老子最大,不爽就搬出去啊」,不過我要說這真的很傷人
我相信很多板友小時候也有跟爸媽有過意見不同,或許也有人被爸媽這樣說過
我不知道有多少人還記得這種小時候的記憶,我是記得,而且確實覺得很不好受
如果你還是不能設身處地,那你只要想一想,以後你和你兒子住,你和你兒子意見不合
,可能是對孫子的教育,可能是對一些傢俱的擺設
到時如果你兒子跟你說「房子是我買的,不爽可以搬出去」,你會覺得怎樣?
希望看到這裡,大多數的人都可以理解,這種話是絕對不能說的
除非你已經不想跟他當親人了。
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: 房子沒出錢不代表沒決定權
: 其他版友都是這樣夫妻錢分那麼清的嗎
: 既然結婚了還這樣嗎?
講個題外話,說到「沒錢沒決定權」這種事,板上講講可以,最好別對自己另一半說
因為那很傷人
打個比方吧,有的板友已經有小孩,有的可能還很小,有的可能已經上小學,有自己的
意見,但有可能跟你意見不同,例如養狗或什麼的
今天如果你對你的小孩說「房子是我買的,不爽可以搬出去」,你覺得會不會很傷人?
可能你會說「不會啊,老子最大,不爽就搬出去啊」,不過我要說這真的很傷人
我相信很多板友小時候也有跟爸媽有過意見不同,或許也有人被爸媽這樣說過
我不知道有多少人還記得這種小時候的記憶,我是記得,而且確實覺得很不好受
如果你還是不能設身處地,那你只要想一想,以後你和你兒子住,你和你兒子意見不合
,可能是對孫子的教育,可能是對一些傢俱的擺設
到時如果你兒子跟你說「房子是我買的,不爽可以搬出去」,你會覺得怎樣?
希望看到這裡,大多數的人都可以理解,這種話是絕對不能說的
除非你已經不想跟他當親人了。
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