要嫁給這種男人嗎? - 婚姻
By Carolina Franco
at 2011-02-21T21:14
at 2011-02-21T21:14
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嗯 按照案主的習性
我想大家應該不需要去譴責她的未婚夫了
或者應該要同情她的未婚夫 我個人覺得他很可憐
遇到一個不會控制自己花錢慾望的未婚妻 至少聘金都付了
我個人支持她的未婚夫永遠不要把錢給交出來
畢竟不要讓她知道自己賺多少 才是最明智的選擇
我現在覺得對她的文章認真的我是個笨蛋
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案主 麻煩說一下實話好不好 我真的看不懂妳的文章
※ 編輯: Gavan5566 來自: 114.38.96.44 (02/21 21:40)
我想大家應該不需要去譴責她的未婚夫了
或者應該要同情她的未婚夫 我個人覺得他很可憐
遇到一個不會控制自己花錢慾望的未婚妻 至少聘金都付了
我個人支持她的未婚夫永遠不要把錢給交出來
畢竟不要讓她知道自己賺多少 才是最明智的選擇
我現在覺得對她的文章認真的我是個笨蛋
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→ melodypiano:之前在別的板 貼差不多的文章 大家都勸他 02/21 21:16
推 ollo:說得太好了 02/21 21:17
→ melodypiano:已經勸過幾次了 不過他堅持現在的這個比以前的 02/21 21:17
→ ollo:忠言逆耳 但事實就是這樣 02/21 21:17
→ melodypiano:男友好很多 所以不想分 02/21 21:17
推 isaacc:講別的闆好像違反現行板歸。樓上請保重。。。 02/21 21:18
推 phoebe0107:不會控制自己花錢慾望的未婚妻 我花了什麼錢在自己身上 02/21 21:21
→ phoebe0107:吃飯錢都不能花嗎? 感情好像不是說斷就能斷 我還在學習 02/21 21:22
→ ollo:只有說別的板 連板名都沒說也不行 現在板規管這麼寬啊? 02/21 21:22
→ ollo:我覺得 如果還能花整天的時間上PTT 表示... 02/21 21:23
推 seay: 沈迷於網路.... 02/21 21:24
→ tsutaS:可以截成好幾行透露一下哪個版嗎? 想拜會一下 02/21 21:24
推 phoebe0107:我也才今天上PTT,因為心情不佳 02/21 21:27
→ ollo:真的只有今天嗎? 02/21 21:28
→ phoebe0107:一星期一次或二星期一次 算沈迷於網路嗎? 02/21 21:29
→ ollo:如果上PTT能讓妳心情變好 請用力上! 努力上! 拼命上! 02/21 21:29
→ isaacc:原PO有孕在身,大家稍為soft一點啦,祝福大家喔! 02/21 21:29
→ ollo:上到天荒地老 海枯石爛 02/21 21:29
→ blockcat:因為看了老爸天還是搞不懂她的狀況@X@ 02/21 21:30
→ phoebe0107:現在懷孕期坐久了腰痛 看久了眼酸 很難沈迷於網路 02/21 21:30
→ blockcat:爸X 半O 02/21 21:30
→ isaacc:如果爭不出甚麼是非曲直,那麼讓這個版子多點鄉愿的溫馨吧~ 02/21 21:30
推 tsutaS:謝謝指點迷津 02/21 21:31
→ phoebe0107:今天只是對於吵架後 感到難過 想是否該選擇一個人 02/21 21:31
→ phoebe0107:上來請教大家一下 只是踫巧這次吵架因為錢 02/21 21:32
推 melodypiano:樓上 同樣的問題 你以前問過了 02/21 21:32
→ phoebe0107:之前吵架都沒為了錢 但真的結果都是很受傷 02/21 21:32
→ melodypiano:大家的建議 一直都是一樣的啊 囧 02/21 21:33
推 miffyfree:老實講想這樣多幹麻 結婚是為了更幸福才結的 如果會感到 02/21 21:33
推 seay:我感覺你們以後都會繼續為錢吵架的,即使沒結婚,也會為了小 02/21 21:33
→ blockcat:所以還是要嫁嘛@x@ 02/21 21:33
→ miffyfree:任何不舒服 管他是啥因素 就算有小孩也不應該結阿 02/21 21:33
→ seay:孩的撫養費繼續吵架。 02/21 21:33
→ melodypiano:不過沒有結婚 會省去吵小孩扶養權的架 02/21 21:34
→ phoebe0107:我在調適彼此在個性上的問題 如果無法調適 我會走 02/21 21:35
→ miffyfree:只需要確定男方會幫忙養小孩就好 婚就不要結心酸的吧 02/21 21:35
→ seay:我是說吵架的原因總歸還是錢。 02/21 21:35
→ ollo:板規有規定不能拿別版的東西來這裡吵 所以我不能說我 02/21 21:35
→ miffyfree:而且一直看不懂 到底為何男方會這樣討厭女方??? 02/21 21:36
→ phoebe0107:我也有看社會上有那些機構可以幫忙未婚媽媽 02/21 21:36
→ ollo:哪天在哪個板看到妳幹嘛 而且真的才幾天 所以... 02/21 21:36
→ seay:那就實說吧。難道真的不結婚之後,原PO接受男方不出錢養孩子? 02/21 21:37
→ phoebe0107:今天所得到的一些中肯建議 真的謝謝你們了 02/21 21:37
→ ollo:我只能說 看看就算 不用太認真 02/21 21:38
→ phoebe0107:今天的他,又跟平時一樣對我好 跟我表示歉意 02/21 21:38
→ phoebe0107:所以我還相信有空間讓彼此在相處上再成長一點 02/21 21:39
案主 麻煩說一下實話好不好 我真的看不懂妳的文章
※ 編輯: Gavan5566 來自: 114.38.96.44 (02/21 21:40)
→ miffyfree:那你真的有把握知道他真的在想啥嗎 請撇開他所謂歉意 02/21 21:39
→ plarse:有些會打人的老公打完之後 也是會道歉呀XD 之後繼續打 02/21 21:40
→ blockcat:所以就是這樣啦,我就知道 02/21 21:40
→ miffyfree:他道歉時 說的出他為何那樣憤怒嗎 不要吵一堆卻無所得 02/21 21:40
→ phoebe0107:如果彼此真的不適合當夫妻 說再多似乎也不能強求 02/21 21:40
→ miffyfree:原po 其實我也看不懂+1 >< 02/21 21:41
→ ollo:有沒有人可以先告訴我 如果能舉證原PO的不實言辭 02/21 21:42
→ phoebe0107:實話就是吵架我不曾傷過他,包括言語及行為 02/21 21:42
→ ollo:板規會怎樣處罰我? 02/21 21:42
→ miffyfree:也許有難言之隱吧 他打一堆我看不到需要吵翻天的理由 02/21 21:42
→ phoebe0107:但吵架的他一定會傷害你 和好後又好得不得了 會關心你 02/21 21:42
推 isaacc:這是婚姻板好嗎?這是婚姻板好嗎?這是婚姻板好嗎? 02/21 21:43
→ tsutaS:你真的中毒了...吵架的時候 你就沒傷過別人? 02/21 21:43
→ miffyfree:那吵架的""點""到底是啥 樓主講的那些只是情緒方面而已 02/21 21:44
→ phoebe0107:彼此在一起 只是吵架的問題 傷人傷到我很難受 02/21 21:44
推 skat:to ollo:我記得這個板的板規一直都是不可以扯他板的事進來說 02/21 21:45
推 seay:他傷你傷得很難受,但是一道歉你又好了,這是典型家暴婦女。 02/21 21:45
→ phoebe0107:只要我不講話 他就生氣了 然後就開始言語傷人了 02/21 21:45
→ miffyfree:所以 吵架原因不重要 只難過他傷害你 只管過程不管結果 02/21 21:46
→ seay:你願意接受這樣被傷害後接受道歉的關係就好,祝福你。 02/21 21:46
→ phoebe0107:只是這次說要搥小孩 讓我對未來的婚姻亮起了紅燈 02/21 21:47
→ phoebe0107:我現在懂了一些大家給的建議 我都有吸收 謝謝大家 02/21 21:48
→ plarse:科科現在才亮起紅燈XD 02/21 21:48
→ ollo:所以我還是裝做什麼都沒看過吧 最後借用Gavan5566這句話與 02/21 21:48
→ ollo:大家分享: 我現在覺得對她的文章認真的我是個笨蛋 02/21 21:48
→ phoebe0107:亮起紅燈是因為我們有一段時間沒吵了 都忘了吵後的他 02/21 21:52
→ melodypiano:以前你問相同的問題時候 大家都說之後會更過分 02/21 21:54
→ melodypiano:你都不相信???? 02/21 21:54
→ phoebe0107:我相信 所以我一直都有跟他在個性上多做磨合 02/21 21:55
推 melodypiano:所以你磨合的結果是 他作的更過分了嗎? 02/21 21:56
→ phoebe0107:他也說他會改變 所以這些日子真的相處不錯 02/21 21:57
→ melodypiano:你們磨合的方法是什麼啊 02/21 21:57
→ phoebe0107:我把個性再放得比較平靜一些 遇到事會鼓勵他 體諒他 02/21 21:58
→ phoebe0107:他也感受到我一直很為他 所以也很體貼我 關心我 02/21 21:59
→ phoebe0107:坦白說我真的在平時跟吵架都不會傷害他 02/21 22:00
→ phoebe0107:每次他生氣 我都對他說不要這樣傷我 我都不曾傷害你 02/21 22:01
推 melodypiano:可是對有金錢不安感的人而言 叫他交出錢來 02/21 22:01
→ melodypiano:已經是言語上的傷害了啊 囧 02/21 22:01
→ phoebe0107:是他一開始就主動說會把錢交給我 之後我才問他什麼 02/21 22:03
→ phoebe0107:時候給我 我也才在想讓怎麼規劃 好讓他知道 02/21 22:04
推 melodypiano:既然他主動說想把錢交給你 那後來他不想交了 不可以嗎 02/21 22:04
→ melodypiano:就反悔了嘛~~~~ 然後 他又不想直接的跟你說他反悔了 02/21 22:05
→ tsutaS:反悔的關鍵 應該就和為什麼還沒結婚的關鍵是一樣的 02/21 22:06
→ tsutaS:當你視另一半為真正伴侶 不會捨得在她身上砸錢 02/21 22:07
→ phoebe0107:我覺得不想交也可以 但最重要要先顧好目前要出生的寶寶 02/21 22:07
→ tsutaS:這點男女都相同 02/21 22:07
推 leprosy:怎麼一開始同情元元波到現在開始質疑原原波啦? 02/21 22:09
→ leprosy:誠徵欖仁包說明當中轉折 02/21 22:09
→ phoebe0107:大家都在乎交錢問題 但我不認為這是重點 重點在同心 02/21 22:10
推 tuann:因為你一開始的原文就在講錢阿...很容易誤導的ㄅㄟ~ 02/21 22:11
→ phoebe0107:懷孕期間的女生 比較需要關心跟關切 02/21 22:11
推 naokon:妳們同心的話就會好好討論了,不會這樣吵架 02/21 22:11
推 meiyaya:懶得說甚麼了 每一個上來的說法都差不多好像複製人一樣 02/21 22:40
→ meiyaya:上一個也是這樣機機歪歪的 最後還惱羞 我還以為同一人 02/21 22:41
→ blockcat:錢哪裡不是重點啊,你們的狀況很奇怪耶= =: 02/21 22:42
→ iiiivy:你現在問題不就卡到懷孕到現在你花的錢已經太多了,男友的 02/21 22:43
→ iiiivy:資金再不進來你會撐不下去,結婚的日子確定了嗎?如果沒有打 02/21 22:43
→ iiiivy:算先登記嗎?不然小孩出來後才結婚好像會比較麻煩,如果再過 02/21 22:44
→ iiiivy:不久就要登記那你在撐一下,不過撐不住買東西用東西需要錢 02/21 22:45
→ iiiivy:還是要讓老公知道,你不跟他要跟他說他哪裡會知道錢花在哪 02/21 22:45
→ yukina23:同意mei大,不同人講的都同樣話,似曾相視的場景啊~ 02/21 22:57
推 seay:我比較覺得每個都說不是錢的問題,但是講起衝突都是為了錢。 02/21 22:58
推 likecandy:我肚子裡有小孩的話 會覺得錢是很重要的問題阿 @@ 02/21 23:29
推 blueteddy:妳要不要陪妳先生去上情緒管理的輔導課或是婚前諮商? 02/22 01:46
→ blueteddy:看來他的問題就是吵架時會傷害人 還有不願意拿出薪水規 02/22 01:47
→ blueteddy:劃未來家庭生活 第二點感覺他並沒有想要負起結婚後的責 02/22 01:47
→ blueteddy:任 我覺得與其在這理問大家的意見 不如找專業的人聊聊 02/22 01:48
推 ritsukoc:轉念比較重要,不然重覆的問題會一再發生 02/22 12:02
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