聽到這樣的話當場讓我無力 - 婚姻
By Gary
at 2011-12-30T13:37
at 2011-12-30T13:37
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原文恕刪...
我的狀況跟原PO很類似,也是家事問題。
我跟老公交往十一年,十二月初剛去登記,
我們沒住在一起,是公公給老公的一間小公寓,
但距離公公家走路約五分鐘,
婚前公公就說他會想念兒子,所以希望我們每星期都會回去,
婆婆幾年前已因病過逝,老公的哥哥也離婚了,
因此目前老家是請打掃的阿姨每天來打掃做家事,假日休息。
可是,每到假日回公公家時,老公就會要求我要洗碗、切水果,
雖然洗個碗不會怎樣,但一直被這樣要求心情也很不好,
而且公公習慣會把煙灰弄在洗碗槽裡,甚至會在洗碗槽擤鼻涕,
有時真的很不想去碰那些碗筷,想留到星期一給阿姨弄就好。
上星期真的忍不住,就跟老公爆發,
我就問老公說,為什麼一定要我洗碗,那碗又不是我用的,
而且星期一阿姨就會來洗,幹嘛一定要叫我洗?
老公就說這是給我表現的機會!
什麼叫"表現的機會"??那你到我家時為什麼不好好"表現"??
一整個火氣就更提上來!
老公就說他爸是傳統大男人,覺得家事是女生要做的,
之前他洗碗,他爸就會一直念,念說什麼家裡都沒女人在,很可憐什麼的...
而且之前他哥的女朋友或是前妻,來他家都會幫忙洗碗,
如果我不幫忙這樣他爸印象會不好!唉~
所以今天是星期五,今天晚上開始到星期天,我的美好假期又要耗在公公家了,
我有跟老公討論過,可不可以他回去就好,
但老公就說這樣人家會說我們"不同心",不可以...@@!
看在平常家事老公會幫忙做的份上,只能忍了,不然還能怎樣呢!
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我的狀況跟原PO很類似,也是家事問題。
我跟老公交往十一年,十二月初剛去登記,
我們沒住在一起,是公公給老公的一間小公寓,
但距離公公家走路約五分鐘,
婚前公公就說他會想念兒子,所以希望我們每星期都會回去,
婆婆幾年前已因病過逝,老公的哥哥也離婚了,
因此目前老家是請打掃的阿姨每天來打掃做家事,假日休息。
可是,每到假日回公公家時,老公就會要求我要洗碗、切水果,
雖然洗個碗不會怎樣,但一直被這樣要求心情也很不好,
而且公公習慣會把煙灰弄在洗碗槽裡,甚至會在洗碗槽擤鼻涕,
有時真的很不想去碰那些碗筷,想留到星期一給阿姨弄就好。
上星期真的忍不住,就跟老公爆發,
我就問老公說,為什麼一定要我洗碗,那碗又不是我用的,
而且星期一阿姨就會來洗,幹嘛一定要叫我洗?
老公就說這是給我表現的機會!
什麼叫"表現的機會"??那你到我家時為什麼不好好"表現"??
一整個火氣就更提上來!
老公就說他爸是傳統大男人,覺得家事是女生要做的,
之前他洗碗,他爸就會一直念,念說什麼家裡都沒女人在,很可憐什麼的...
而且之前他哥的女朋友或是前妻,來他家都會幫忙洗碗,
如果我不幫忙這樣他爸印象會不好!唉~
所以今天是星期五,今天晚上開始到星期天,我的美好假期又要耗在公公家了,
我有跟老公討論過,可不可以他回去就好,
但老公就說這樣人家會說我們"不同心",不可以...@@!
看在平常家事老公會幫忙做的份上,只能忍了,不然還能怎樣呢!
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