過年到底要不要回去? - 婚姻
By Damian
at 2011-12-30T03:11
at 2011-12-30T03:11
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10月09日 小舅舅打電話給老公,跟老公說:"聽說婆婆台中住的很不習慣..."
balabala~...
老公當著婆婆的面回答小舅舅:如果媽真的不習慣台中,想回高雄,
那我們也只能同意,然後寶寶再看要怎麼處理。
婆婆則說:啊我說我住不習慣是很久之前跟xxx(小舅的女兒)講的啊~
怎麼現在還在提。
10月16日 婆婆跟老公開口說她要回高雄。叫我們去找保姆帶小孩。
婆婆:"這附近就有人在帶小孩了啊!一個月一萬!"
(我去哪生一萬塊出來?扣除房租還有必要開銷,每個月都是負的..)
10月21日 早上七點,婆婆行李拿一拿,就離開了。連聲再見也沒有說。
七點半,老公下樓買早餐,婆婆還在管理室和婆婆媽媽們聊天,
一看見老公,馬上從笑臉變成臭臉。
老公只簡單的陪個笑臉,要婆婆多注意身體,就離開了。
接下來的日子,我和公司商量讓我在家工作,順便帶孩子。接著開始處理租屋處,
將婆婆留下的家電、傢俱及廚具等用品,全數打包運回高雄。其餘的東西則打包運
回我娘家,和先生及寶寶也搬回娘家居住。
(在接婆婆同住前,我和先生原本就跟我娘家媽媽住一起。)
而祖先牌位,在和先生商量後,決定先將祖先請往廟裡。
老實說,婆婆的快閃離開,讓我心裡一直有個疙瘩。因為先生必需上班,所以我是帶
著寶寶邊工作、邊整理東西要搬家,情緒一直呈現很混亂的狀態,我不止一次問我先
生:我是做了什麼錯事??還是我真的是很糟糕的媳婦??所以媽是這樣好像逃難似的烙
跑???
而從婆婆開口說要離開到真的離開,就只有那短短的幾天。婆婆什麼藉口、理由通通
都搬出來說。而我的情緒則由錯愕,轉變成憤怒。說要來的是她,要走的也是她。
一下子說帶小孩很累,一下子說媽媽手,一下子又變成對台中水土不服,下一分鐘又
說是因為先生對她的態度很差,所以她不想待。
而先生在跟婆婆談過後,給我的結論則是:別人帶小孩有一萬可以收,她只有七千。
十月底至今,先生和婆婆通電話時,婆婆關心”祖先牌位放在哪間廟",比關心寶寶
還要來得勤勞。
先生也不止一次跟婆婆說,她要過去祭拜的話,先通知我們,到台中時我們再接送她
到廟裡。婆婆的回答總是:我不想打擾你們。
快過年了,今年這個年,我到底該不該和先生帶著寶寶到高雄過年?
除了情緒尚未整理好之外,經濟狀況也是個問題...。唉...
--
balabala~...
老公當著婆婆的面回答小舅舅:如果媽真的不習慣台中,想回高雄,
那我們也只能同意,然後寶寶再看要怎麼處理。
婆婆則說:啊我說我住不習慣是很久之前跟xxx(小舅的女兒)講的啊~
怎麼現在還在提。
10月16日 婆婆跟老公開口說她要回高雄。叫我們去找保姆帶小孩。
婆婆:"這附近就有人在帶小孩了啊!一個月一萬!"
(我去哪生一萬塊出來?扣除房租還有必要開銷,每個月都是負的..)
10月21日 早上七點,婆婆行李拿一拿,就離開了。連聲再見也沒有說。
七點半,老公下樓買早餐,婆婆還在管理室和婆婆媽媽們聊天,
一看見老公,馬上從笑臉變成臭臉。
老公只簡單的陪個笑臉,要婆婆多注意身體,就離開了。
接下來的日子,我和公司商量讓我在家工作,順便帶孩子。接著開始處理租屋處,
將婆婆留下的家電、傢俱及廚具等用品,全數打包運回高雄。其餘的東西則打包運
回我娘家,和先生及寶寶也搬回娘家居住。
(在接婆婆同住前,我和先生原本就跟我娘家媽媽住一起。)
而祖先牌位,在和先生商量後,決定先將祖先請往廟裡。
老實說,婆婆的快閃離開,讓我心裡一直有個疙瘩。因為先生必需上班,所以我是帶
著寶寶邊工作、邊整理東西要搬家,情緒一直呈現很混亂的狀態,我不止一次問我先
生:我是做了什麼錯事??還是我真的是很糟糕的媳婦??所以媽是這樣好像逃難似的烙
跑???
而從婆婆開口說要離開到真的離開,就只有那短短的幾天。婆婆什麼藉口、理由通通
都搬出來說。而我的情緒則由錯愕,轉變成憤怒。說要來的是她,要走的也是她。
一下子說帶小孩很累,一下子說媽媽手,一下子又變成對台中水土不服,下一分鐘又
說是因為先生對她的態度很差,所以她不想待。
而先生在跟婆婆談過後,給我的結論則是:別人帶小孩有一萬可以收,她只有七千。
十月底至今,先生和婆婆通電話時,婆婆關心”祖先牌位放在哪間廟",比關心寶寶
還要來得勤勞。
先生也不止一次跟婆婆說,她要過去祭拜的話,先通知我們,到台中時我們再接送她
到廟裡。婆婆的回答總是:我不想打擾你們。
快過年了,今年這個年,我到底該不該和先生帶著寶寶到高雄過年?
除了情緒尚未整理好之外,經濟狀況也是個問題...。唉...
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