老婆請育嬰假半年,不帶小孩,還說要請一年 - 婚姻
By Leila
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首先,請CrazyKill先冷靜一下,順便釐清:
1.你今天在版上PO文的原因到底是為什麼?是要討安慰還是真的要求助?
2.求助的內容是希望版友給予[如何說服老婆帶小孩]還是[解決老婆的精神問題]?
關於[育嬰假不帶孩子]這件事:
1.沒有人規定育嬰假一定要在家帶小孩,的確是可以拿來做休息或另外的生涯規畫。
但老婆除了補習外的時間,有沒有在唸書呢?
如果老婆真的有心要考公職,我想,他的努力你應該是會看的到吧?如果她是真的
有心要念書,邊帶孩子邊念書是很難專心的!(原PO可以請一天假當全職爸爸看看,帶
孩子不是只有餵奶、換尿布而已,新手爸媽還搞不清楚孩子的習性時,孩子每次哭泣都
必須去摸索出原因…) -->我兒子現在4.5M,目前是我請育嬰假在家帶半年,白天只有
我自己帶,但有時候我們還是搞不清楚兒子為什麼哭(囧),原本我也打算要利用這半年
看書考公職,實際帶了以後才發現根本沒辦法好好唸書,連想好好看甄嬛傳都會被打斷
了....
2.原PO再和老婆討論帶孩子的口氣是怎樣呢?如果你的說話方式就和你在版上說話的
語氣一樣,也難怪你們會吵架了。更何況你老婆是曾有經過精神問題的人呢?很難不開
開啟他的防衛機轉嘛!(版友給你建議都可以開啟你的防衛機轉了不是嗎?)
3.不要急著去否定老婆,但要適時的給予他[現實感]。
關於[老婆預設立場:婆媳問題]這件事:
1.老婆的媽媽和阿嬤之間有沒有婆媳問題?所以讓老婆先入為主的認為一定也會發生
在自己身上?(防衛機轉之一)
2.原PO的爸媽是否曾經和老婆說過什麼,導致老婆對婆媳有排斥感?
舉我自己的例子來說,我公婆對我是很好,但自從小孩出生,婆婆會有意無意的想
幫我們帶小孩,在我拒絕N次後,現在我看到公婆打來的電話都很反感...
而且,婆婆是你媽,你的家人,如果聽到老婆批評自己家人,應該也會啟動你的防
衛機轉吧?我想,先靜下心來聽聽老婆怎麼說,不要一昧的先反駁。
關於[生小孩]這件事:
1.請問原PO事知道老婆曾經看過精神科是懷孕前還是懷孕後?
如果是懷孕前就知道了,有沒有確認過及思考過:
老婆的精神疾病是否有高遺傳性?ex:精神分裂症
老婆的的精神狀況是否適合帶小孩?ex:妳文中說的會暴怒、拿刀威脅...
交往期間,都沒發現老婆的精神症狀嗎?我覺得,重點不在於婚後才知道曾經看過
精神科,而是在婚前你有沒有查覺到這些症狀,例如:容易和同事吵架、7年前從動手打
人..即使是一般人,也會去討論[我們的個性適合生小孩嗎?]
2.懷孕過程中都沒有討論過生之後帶小孩的問題嗎?
3.原PO說:[小孩是她堅持要生的,岳父母也堅持要生; 我跟我爸媽都說順其自然,沒逼
過她]-->這句話很不負責任!小孩又不是老婆想生就生的出來的...如果你們自己根本就
沒討論好適不適合生小孩,你也是有[懷孕主導權]的吧。
4.不論老婆是否有精神問題,老婆認為生小孩是負責,那生小孩之前有沒有跟她說:
養小孩也是一種負責?
5.[我老婆反對我爸媽來台北帶小孩]
[: : → CrazyKill:m鄉民, 老婆只叫我爸媽帶, 她不一起帶]
[: : → CrazyKill:我所謂的"反對",是說老婆反對[我爸媽來台北,一起帶]]
欸!所以到底是怎樣啊?老婆不反對和公婆同住,只是反對一起帶小孩?也不想帶小孩
?有沒有問過老婆真正的想法是什麼阿?到底真正排斥的事情是[帶小孩]還是[和公婆相
處?]
6.就像版友們說的,如果老婆不適合也不想帶,就不要勉強了,孩子是無辜的。
關於[想換高薪工作卻被老婆反對]這件事:
1.老婆反對的原因真的是因為路程遠嗎?感覺還有些不安全感欸...
2.如果你真的想做那份工作,就算老婆反對你還是會去啦!出了家門後誰知道你真正
的工作在做什麼阿?!你真的有那麼聽你老婆的話嗎?!= =
關於[原PO精神壓力大]這件事
1.感覺得出來你承受了一些壓力,也許包含了父母、老婆及社會期待,但,既然你今
天使用的標題是[求助],那麼請不要砲轟板友們的建議,大家沒有那麼閒,吃飽沒事幹
給建議來討你的砲轟。
2.如果你只是想討安慰,下次PO文就不要用求助,這樣大家就會推文:給原PO拍拍。
3.自己的情緒或精神壓力也需要注意,長久和有精神症狀的人相處,有時候很難發現
自己已經被影響了。
關於[老婆的精神症狀]這件事
1.聽起來,老婆發作的時候是有自傷或傷人之虞。
說真的,是否要強制就醫,決定權還是在家人手上,就看原PO有沒有Power要處理。
我因為工作的性質,常接觸類似的家庭,通常會讓症狀越來越嚴重的原因除了病患本身
沒有病識感外,再來就是同住的家人因為怕破壞彼此間的關係及家庭和諧,而採放任及
消極的方式去應對。最常聽見的說法就是:[他不願意去就醫,我也沒辦法阿]。
精神衛生法--第三章:保護及醫療
第 二 節 強制鑑定及住院治療
第二十一條 嚴重病人如有明顯傷害他人或自己之虞,或有傷害行為時,經專科醫
師診斷有全日住院治療之必要者,保護人應協助病人,前往精神醫療機構辦理住院。
前項嚴重病人不接受全日住院治療時,經由二位以上專科醫師鑑定,經書面證明有
全日住院治療之必要者,應強制其住院;其強制住院,應在中央衛生主管機關指定之精
神醫療機構為之。
前項鑑定,以全日住院方式為之者,其住院鑑定期間以七日為限。
第二十二條 警察機關於發現或接獲通知,罹患精神疾病或疑似罹患精神疾病者,
有明顯傷害他人或自己之虞,或有傷害行為時,除本法或其他法律另有規定外,應即護
送前往中央衛生主管機關指定之精神醫療機構診療,並應立即通知當地衛生主管機關;
其身分經查明者,應立即通知其保護人或家屬。
前項病人經專科醫師診斷屬嚴重病人,有全日住院治療之必要時,依前條規定辦理
第二十三條 依第二十一條第二項規定之強制住院,其期間以三十日為限。但經二
位專科醫師鑑定,認有必要繼續住院治療者,應留院治療。嚴重病人不接受時,應強制
其繼續住院,並通知其保護人或家屬及當地衛生主管機關。強制住院期間,每隔六個月
,應依上述程序重新評估。
第二十四條 保護人因醫療、復健、教育訓練及就業輔導之目的,得限制嚴重病人
之居住場所。但不得以強暴、脅迫或其他不正當方法為之。
2.不知道原PO住在哪,如果是台北市,聯醫的松德院區有提供精神科居家治療,對於
沒有病識感、拒絕就醫、且有明顯干擾家庭或社區生活的,可以申請到宅協助。
http://www.tpech.gov.tw/ct.asp?xItem=140555&CtNode=14174&mp=109201
其他縣市應該也有醫院提供類似的服務,可以詢問當地的長期照顧管理中心、衛生
所、健康服務中心。
最後,祝順心,希望原PO看完後不要砲轟我,謝謝。
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另外在附上文中有提到的相關防衛機轉,希望可以幫助你更了解你老婆。
http://www.angelfire.com/hi/hayashi/defense_mechanism.html
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