老婆抱怨在家照顧小孩很累 - 婚姻
By Cara
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※ 引述《waisalder (我是工頭)》之銘言:
: 老弟我目前35歲 兩個小孩 2歲及4歲
: 要不要打個賭
: 請你全職照顧小孩3天
: 我保證你一定落荒而逃
可以啊 換我跟你賭
請問想要賭甚麼?
我比你多一個小孩
請問三天算甚麼
因為工作性質 超過一禮拜的我都帶過
更別說離婚後的單親狀況
推文中 有件事講得很不錯
真的累 連上來抱怨的力氣都沒有
這也是為何 我很少晚上上線的原因
有人常常會搞錯
家管不是不累 也不是沒貢獻
付出的犧牲奉獻 相信家人能感受
所以單薪家庭 我不喜歡工作者瞧不起家管
但也搞清楚 反之亦然 請不要無限上綱
講難聽點 今天過勞死的新聞
是家管多呢 還是高強度工作者?
很多人會說 家管是24hr工作
可是要她們去工作時
又會說親自帶孩子的好 扯一堆有的沒的理由
最奇怪的是 天天都說自己很忙
然後有時間上PTT 變成常駐程式
父母不是萬能的 自己要懂怎麼做取捨
工作也是啊 難道來者不拒嗎?
堅持事事完美 最後就是逼大家一起上吊
搞到家庭氣氛不好 甚至離婚
這就是愛孩子最好的方式嗎?
例如我家老二 夜啼到快兩歲
孩子媽媽常常跟我抱怨睡眠品質不好
我們嘗試過很多方式解決 但都沒有成效
後來才發現原因 很簡單 就是孩子的依賴
當妳給予過度的照護 其實不一定是好事
解決方式很簡單啊 我們直接分房睡
孩子第一晚哭得唏哩嘩啦
除了某次哭太久 我起來拍拍
只是看著她 但不抱抱 也不哄搖
然後第二晚 她又起來哭
我就從眼縫偷瞄 她是先哭 過會沒動靜才睜開眼
爬起來看了四周一眼 發現只有這個殘忍的老爸
然後就咚一聲 繼續下去睡
一周後 夜啼毛病就沒好了 然後就讓她獨睡
所以我帶孩子 反而比前妻輕鬆很多
在她身邊 孩子會鬧很晚不睡
在我身邊 孩子自己知道 何時該做甚麼
不然呢 把自己搞死嗎?
常常看到很多孩子 會高依賴性 甚至媽寶
問題在哪? 不就是父母自己本身?
哭? 鬧? 一定要抱嗎?
精神一定要停孩子身上嗎 偶爾丟到安全區就好了
把自己搞得很累 再來怪罪另一半 不覺得很怪?
當妳埋怨先生媽寶的時候
有沒有想過 自己也在製造另一個媽寶
如果給孩子過多的 拜託請收回
對妳和孩子 甚至對另一半 都是種解脫
如果妳是另一半 請慢慢引導對方
如何在壓力和勞累中 取得更適當的平衡
說甚麼24hr的 請先檢討自己的教養方式
半夜醒來受影響的 請訓練孩子獨睡
很多事情都有解決之道 請不要作繭自縛
生命自己會找到出路的
就算突然沒有妳 地球照樣會轉動
--
: 老弟我目前35歲 兩個小孩 2歲及4歲
: 要不要打個賭
: 請你全職照顧小孩3天
: 我保證你一定落荒而逃
可以啊 換我跟你賭
請問想要賭甚麼?
我比你多一個小孩
請問三天算甚麼
因為工作性質 超過一禮拜的我都帶過
更別說離婚後的單親狀況
推文中 有件事講得很不錯
真的累 連上來抱怨的力氣都沒有
這也是為何 我很少晚上上線的原因
有人常常會搞錯
家管不是不累 也不是沒貢獻
付出的犧牲奉獻 相信家人能感受
所以單薪家庭 我不喜歡工作者瞧不起家管
但也搞清楚 反之亦然 請不要無限上綱
講難聽點 今天過勞死的新聞
是家管多呢 還是高強度工作者?
很多人會說 家管是24hr工作
可是要她們去工作時
又會說親自帶孩子的好 扯一堆有的沒的理由
最奇怪的是 天天都說自己很忙
然後有時間上PTT 變成常駐程式
父母不是萬能的 自己要懂怎麼做取捨
工作也是啊 難道來者不拒嗎?
堅持事事完美 最後就是逼大家一起上吊
搞到家庭氣氛不好 甚至離婚
這就是愛孩子最好的方式嗎?
例如我家老二 夜啼到快兩歲
孩子媽媽常常跟我抱怨睡眠品質不好
我們嘗試過很多方式解決 但都沒有成效
後來才發現原因 很簡單 就是孩子的依賴
當妳給予過度的照護 其實不一定是好事
解決方式很簡單啊 我們直接分房睡
孩子第一晚哭得唏哩嘩啦
除了某次哭太久 我起來拍拍
只是看著她 但不抱抱 也不哄搖
然後第二晚 她又起來哭
我就從眼縫偷瞄 她是先哭 過會沒動靜才睜開眼
爬起來看了四周一眼 發現只有這個殘忍的老爸
然後就咚一聲 繼續下去睡
一周後 夜啼毛病就沒好了 然後就讓她獨睡
所以我帶孩子 反而比前妻輕鬆很多
在她身邊 孩子會鬧很晚不睡
在我身邊 孩子自己知道 何時該做甚麼
不然呢 把自己搞死嗎?
常常看到很多孩子 會高依賴性 甚至媽寶
問題在哪? 不就是父母自己本身?
哭? 鬧? 一定要抱嗎?
精神一定要停孩子身上嗎 偶爾丟到安全區就好了
把自己搞得很累 再來怪罪另一半 不覺得很怪?
當妳埋怨先生媽寶的時候
有沒有想過 自己也在製造另一個媽寶
如果給孩子過多的 拜託請收回
對妳和孩子 甚至對另一半 都是種解脫
如果妳是另一半 請慢慢引導對方
如何在壓力和勞累中 取得更適當的平衡
說甚麼24hr的 請先檢討自己的教養方式
半夜醒來受影響的 請訓練孩子獨睡
很多事情都有解決之道 請不要作繭自縛
生命自己會找到出路的
就算突然沒有妳 地球照樣會轉動
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