和婆婆吃醋~"~哎....... - 婚姻
By Vanessa
at 2011-10-20T19:57
at 2011-10-20T19:57
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我很無聊,不是來抱怨的,也不是討拍
只是…就很想找個地方說說心情罷了~
事實上,我是沒什麼不滿的,只是覺的有點悶而以~
然後…進入正題了!
婆婆年初嚴重車禍後,住院半年的時間
好不容易可以出院了,也請了外勞照顧
最近發現外勞會打媽媽,我和老公決定把她趕走ˋˊ
然後…她居然在上星期直接烙跑了…= ="
(有連絡上人了,拒她的說法是想整我們…)
總之,我和老公本來就打算暫時先自己顧婆婆了
婆婆的房間是雙人床,那時為了外勞又多買一張單人床
兩張床是併在一起的
現在我和老公一起顧婆婆,晚上就三人睡同房
婆婆睡最內側,老公睡中間,我睡另一張單人床上
我很愛我婆婆~她很可愛~(大概是因為生病的關係~變的很像小孩子)
我當然更愛我老公~然後,我老公也超愛我婆婆的
對老公而言,沒什麼比的上婆婆重要~
(我個人很認同這點,因為婆婆辛苦了大半輩子~
年輕時被公公家暴,公公又酗酒,一直是婆婆辛苦工作養家保護小孩
都還沒退休享到福,就受到嚴重車禍,現在智力衰退又失禁…)
我一直很心疼婆婆,所以對照顧婆婆餵食、洗澡、散步、清大小便什麼的~
也都覺的就是我應該做的事~(老公要賺錢養家呀~我照顧媽媽也是應該的)
問題是…最近這幾天~跟婆婆睡一起的日子
我漸漸的發現…老公晚上累了就會直接進房間去躺著
(這是我的問題,因為我太早睡不著@@ 會在客廳待到電視看完才進房)
早上,老公每天醒來的第一件事,是翻身去看婆婆~
跟婆婆打招呼,說說話,抱抱她,甚至親她一下~然後就起身幫她換尿布
換完後,不是接著繼續躺一下,就是直接去廁所
或者把婆婆帶去廁所練習上廁所~
這一切都很ok~但我醒來看著老公的背影~
卻總覺的…有點悶ˊˋ
我想,我是在吃婆婆的醋…
以前和老公睡同房時,一直很希望他每天醒來時能抱抱我,親親我
(我都睡的很晚,老公永遠比我早起~)
他都說怕吵到我,所以很少會來抱我、親我一下的
可是…現在~他就睡在我和婆婆的中間
卻每天醒來就翻身去抱一下婆婆,跟她說話,然後親她臉頰
哎>"<~我知道我真的很無聊~
但…就是覺的有點悶
前幾天,我還會想說,也許他等等會翻身過來再抱抱我一下
結果…五、六天過去了~從來都沒有ˊˋ
其實,我真的很希望…他下次早上醒來時~
抱完婆婆後,可以稍微注意我一下~
抱我一下,甚至牽牽我的手也好…
或者,摸摸我肚子裡的小不點,跟她說聲早安也行呀>"<
哎…每天早上都有一種…母女兩被老公忽略了的感覺~"~
真的很悶吶…
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我只是想抒發一下心情~
不要建議我跟老公說或討論~
因為…我不想那麼白目的害老公心情不好一一"
或者因為我自己愛吃醋就跟老公有爭執、不愉快之類的
跟婆婆吃這種醋真的很無聊呀…
不知道這種心情文適不適合發在這個版~
如果不行~就請版主刪文唄!!@@
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