有了小孩後,婆媳關係怎麼好? - 婚姻
By Xanthe
at 2011-12-03T20:41
at 2011-12-03T20:41
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我的寶寶跟你的差不多大呢~ 最近也是常遇到一樣的問題,
女兒很黏我,我婆婆也曾因為她不給抱而說她壞壞。
我的作法是,婆婆說她"壞壞,只找媽媽"時,
做出不解的表情說"她只是要找媽媽,找媽媽為什麼是壞啊?"
然後開始對著寶寶用可愛的語氣狂唸:寶貝最聰明啦,媽媽最愛妳又有ㄋㄟㄋㄟ喝,
媽媽會秀秀妳會跟妳玩,所以當然要常常找媽媽呀~~
搖小孩好解決啦,婆婆一搖就按住她的手臂說不要搖,如果還是不聽,
小孩抱回來用妳自己的方式安撫給她看;
如果又搖,以上動作再重複一次。
不要怕直說會黑掉,其實不過就是她的方式是妳不想要的;
婆婆一搖就馬上制止她,溫和的使用跳針式阻止法,
講到她一抱小孩就會想到妳說不要搖為止。
其實不只是婆婆,我自己的爸媽也會做一些讓我很無言的事情,
沒太嚴重的就笑笑算了,碰到我在意的點就一定會說出來。
不過這都沒有我姐姐厲害,前幾天她來幫我顧小孩,剛好婆婆過來。
寶寶明明自己在玩,婆婆卻一直想抱。
我姐就開始訓話,說抱小孩前也要取得她的同意啊,
如果是妳會想要自己玩到一半突然被抱起來嗎?
小朋友也有自己的意見啊,我們要尊重她,大家彼此尊重才能夠好好相處啊。
為什麼哭哭是壞壞呢?她哭是在跟妳說話啊,要了解她為什麼哭,
而不是她一哭就要她閉嘴或是說她壞壞...... (下略一萬字)
後來婆婆私下跟老公說我姐好嚴格,我都快笑死XD
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女兒很黏我,我婆婆也曾因為她不給抱而說她壞壞。
我的作法是,婆婆說她"壞壞,只找媽媽"時,
做出不解的表情說"她只是要找媽媽,找媽媽為什麼是壞啊?"
然後開始對著寶寶用可愛的語氣狂唸:寶貝最聰明啦,媽媽最愛妳又有ㄋㄟㄋㄟ喝,
媽媽會秀秀妳會跟妳玩,所以當然要常常找媽媽呀~~
搖小孩好解決啦,婆婆一搖就按住她的手臂說不要搖,如果還是不聽,
小孩抱回來用妳自己的方式安撫給她看;
如果又搖,以上動作再重複一次。
不要怕直說會黑掉,其實不過就是她的方式是妳不想要的;
婆婆一搖就馬上制止她,溫和的使用跳針式阻止法,
講到她一抱小孩就會想到妳說不要搖為止。
其實不只是婆婆,我自己的爸媽也會做一些讓我很無言的事情,
沒太嚴重的就笑笑算了,碰到我在意的點就一定會說出來。
不過這都沒有我姐姐厲害,前幾天她來幫我顧小孩,剛好婆婆過來。
寶寶明明自己在玩,婆婆卻一直想抱。
我姐就開始訓話,說抱小孩前也要取得她的同意啊,
如果是妳會想要自己玩到一半突然被抱起來嗎?
小朋友也有自己的意見啊,我們要尊重她,大家彼此尊重才能夠好好相處啊。
為什麼哭哭是壞壞呢?她哭是在跟妳說話啊,要了解她為什麼哭,
而不是她一哭就要她閉嘴或是說她壞壞...... (下略一萬字)
後來婆婆私下跟老公說我姐好嚴格,我都快笑死XD
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