我的故事 - 婚姻

By Sierra Rose
at 2012-11-14T11:36
at 2012-11-14T11:36
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→ *****:因為我公婆在一開始來說媒的時候,跟我們講錢不是問題, 11/14 11:14
→ *****:再多錢都他們出,後來再談細節的時候,只是行情的價,他們都11/14 11:16
→ *****:有意見,
孩子
你知道什麼是場面話嗎?
相信你公婆應該也有說:我們會把*****當作女兒一樣來疼
那你現在要拿來抱怨他們沒做到嗎?
再者,你爸媽是不是當下也說:
錢不是問題,婚禮不用辦太大
只要年輕人開心就行了
假設如此
你先生是不是可以說:你家很煩,明明提親都說沒意見的?
場面話不就是應酬話嗎
聽聽就好
認真就輸了= =
況且這跟你說:是幫他們作面子
一點關係都沒有
你爸媽要求這麼多
無非是幫女兒跟自己作面子
不希望被說 女兒隨便嫁掉
真要為你婆家想,大可自己出錢
再跟別人說:是親家周到,錢都他們出的
這樣才是幫婆家作面子= =
看來你的百般委屈
有部分是來自娘家不滿的聲音
建議你換個角度想
設身處地假設一下
如果你是大姑、婆婆
對於這些事情的動機是不是有其他解釋?
會對釐清事情比較有幫助
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之前的文章,牽涉太多具體事項
依原po要求刪文了
至於這篇已消音
並且我真的認為原po要換角度去思考
婆家的反應是否也是情有可原
就算父親在提親時沒有說隨便辦
但他是否也有說別的場面話呢?
婆家也可以一句一句地算清楚嗎?
小孩都上幼稚園了
這些不愉快的事情卻一直放在心裡
除了加強你對他們的反感之外,並無益處
你先生應該也頗感無奈吧
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