想請各位給我一個指導... - 婚姻
By Candice
at 2011-12-31T02:17
at 2011-12-31T02:17
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老公的爺爺於昨晚病逝
我們住在台中 他們住在台北
還有其他的家人在美國與香港 都正在安排回來台灣的行程中
其實我老公早上就知道他爺爺病逝了
可是他照樣去上班 也覺得沒必要趕回去台北
後來傍晚我睡醒後(我上夜班)我才看到APP
我馬上就打電話給他 叫他應該要趕快回台北
因為老公的父親很早就離開了 家中只有媽媽跟一個妹妹
我覺得在倫理 道義 責任上 我老公雖然不是長孫 但畢竟也應該要代表他們家
結果卻引發我們夫妻爭吵
他覺得他媽都沒叫他回去了 我幹麻要趕他回台北
而且他覺得工作都還在忙當 他離不開產線 主管也還在現場 重點是:死了 他又能怎樣
其實我是一個黑到發亮的媳婦 如果按照他們家說已經認我的話 我是媳婦..
我跟老公在一起五年後結婚 至今四年 總共九年多
說真的要感謝我老公讓我這麼黑 黑到今年我才知道我婆婆怎麼在別人面前說我
她說她的兒子是被我控制住的 這九年來她兒子不管是要回家還是要打電話聯絡都要
經過我的同意 說我愛的是他們家的錢 等等的...(實在不想多說...)
這些話是他在美國的姑姑今年回台灣後跟我老公開始用E-MAIL聯繫後
對他訓話後 我後來實在受不了這些抹黑後 直接回信給他姑姑
才知道原來這九年來 我在別人眼中是這麼低賤
後來他姑姑意思是說那樣算是誤會一場 老公的奶奶意思是既然我都跟他結婚了
他們也願意承認我是他們家的媳婦 要我多多體諒他們
但是當初我們結婚時 沒有婚禮 沒有宴客 沒有雙方家長
說真的到現在我爸媽也對我老公死心了 因為我老公已經三年多沒來我家
逢三節也是我催他打電話給他媽 給我爸媽祝賀
我爸媽本來很體諒他 但是今年發生了一件事情 讓我們全家 甚至我對這段婚姻都看淡了
"他在臉書上 跟我的好朋友 抱怨我跟我家人 說他很想離婚 說我愛的是他家的錢"
"說我不可能答應離婚 因為我當他是長期飯票"
"說我家人都沒用 甚至說我弟是垃圾等等的"
這些我下班後看著電腦得訊息後 我就COPY下來
在椅子上坐到天亮 跟他說 我沒說過我不離婚 只要他開口 我就離
他才開始道歉說他喝多了 只是隨便說說的怎樣怎樣的
過幾天後我跟我姐說 因為訊息中間都扯到我全部家人 我姐看到哭了
打來罵我說 妳真的很賤 被人糟蹋成這樣 我姊後來也打去罵我朋友
因為那是我跟我姊共同的朋友 她那天跟我老公聊天的內容都是在附和我老公
我姐氣到發狂 這件事情也在家裡爆發 但是我媽最後說算了 我父母也都沒出面說什麼
甚至前幾天他感冒 我媽還特地打電話問他狀況 叫他要回來我家
現在遇到他爺爺過世了 說真的我並不想去台北
我老公堅持要我告別式一定要到
我只淡淡跟他說一句 你們沒有人有資格要我做什麼
這九年來的遭遇 已經不是文字可以形容
我不懂 人家一句認我是他們家媳婦 我就得必須做什麼嗎?
我老公也未曾替我家做過些什麼
我可以不去嗎?
我真的不想去
我真的好不想踏進那個城市 看到他們
一想到我就一直心悸
可以請大家給我個指導嗎...安慰也好...
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