想怎樣就一定要怎樣的公公 - 婚姻
By Puput
at 2012-01-07T17:04
at 2012-01-07T17:04
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本來我已經慢慢在練習習慣我公公,想跟他維持至少還OK的關係
本來以為至少我已經不會想再PO文抱怨他,沒想到.....
我們住台中,婆家在南投,婚前我就講好不同住,所以縱使我公婆明示暗示我們都裝死
但是我跟老公有個共識就是盡量每週回去,事實上也確實是每週回去
但有時遇到真的有事的時候,例如老公要進修或加班,我們當週沒辦法回去
公公就會說他要來,要拿水果來(天啊!又是水果!有興趣可翻我前文...)
好說歹說請他不用來都沒用,他要來就是要來!
之前我也就都算了!沒說什麼,反正他愛來就讓他來吧!
但這次小朋友已經燒四天了,而且都是四十度高燒,今早本來已經準備回去
臨時到醫院看醫師結果檢查確定是B型流感,老公就打電話回去跟公婆說我們不回去了
因為小孩子也不舒服,也怕傳染(婆婆是幼稚園老師,很怕她一中獎影響一堆小朋友)
婆婆本來也已經說好了!
忽然公公又打電話來,叫我們一定要回去,他水果已經買好了 @@
跟他說怕傳染他說不會,跟他說小朋友不舒服他說回去人多好照應
最後老公再打電話回去跟婆婆說,小朋友可能隨時有狀況都要回醫院
婆婆也答應會跟公公溝通
結果又忽然一通電話來,說那他明天要過來,拿水果來然後看小的
我老公說他要帶小的回去拿水果他也不要,
再說就生氣,很大聲的說你們為什麼不讓我去,不回來沒關係啊!為什麼連我要去也不行
(我老公開擴音我有聽到他大叫)
婆婆什麼都好,就是怕我公公生氣,只要我公公一生氣她就會要我們配合
我老公掛了電話也很無奈,說他說的話他爸永遠都不會聽
我這次真的就覺得很煩了!帶個生病的小孩,再加個可能也會生病的小小孩
家裡一團亂,我公公這時候還要來湊熱鬧,
為什麼不能夠為我們設想一下呢??沒事我們一定會回去的,也是幾乎每個禮拜回去啊!
我真的很不懂,為什麼一定要這樣,請他不要來就說我們不歡迎他什麼的
(按照往例掛掉電話一定又會說是我的意思)
也不知道能怎麼辦了,只能接受&吐苦水,我娘家的長輩雖然有時候也會很盧
但也不會說怎樣就怎樣,自認為是為對方好,但卻是造成我們的困擾
當然我了解他是疼我們的,只是做法,我真的有點難接受
遇到這種說不動的長輩,真的是很煩啊!
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