老婆先入為主的認為婆媳會不合 - 婚姻
By Bethany
at 2012-01-06T23:11
at 2012-01-06T23:11
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※ 引述《pennylook (沉睡的毛利小五郎)》之銘言:
: 新婚第一年 婚前還好 婚後比較明顯
: 因為跟我爸媽住的比較近 1個月會一起吃1.2次飯(純吃飯 也沒叫他幫忙)
: 他也會不爽 說希望不要多接觸 說壓力大
: 我爸媽跟他說話都會故左右言他 敷衍的很快帶過
: 幾次後我爸媽也有點不高興
這不是什麼合不合的問題,一個陌生人突然要叫她媽
又不能真的把她當作自己的媽媽,
結果就變成了一種讓人緊張的關係
舉例來說,對親生媽媽女兒可以撒嬌,可以大聲吼回去,可以掛電話不理
可以口吻不耐煩,通通沒有關係
原po舉的例子:故左右言他,敷衍很快帶過
這一點我老婆跟我岳母的對話常常就是這樣
:「好了好了,媽這我知道,你不用再講了。」
同樣的對話,親生媽媽可能聽慣了無所謂
婆婆聽了至少一開始會不高興吧
兩種解決方法
1.少接觸,隔絕衝突可能性(我覺得很有用)
2.住在一起,磨合到婆媳兩人都習慣(我沒試過不知道管不管用)
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: 新婚第一年 婚前還好 婚後比較明顯
: 因為跟我爸媽住的比較近 1個月會一起吃1.2次飯(純吃飯 也沒叫他幫忙)
: 他也會不爽 說希望不要多接觸 說壓力大
: 我爸媽跟他說話都會故左右言他 敷衍的很快帶過
: 幾次後我爸媽也有點不高興
這不是什麼合不合的問題,一個陌生人突然要叫她媽
又不能真的把她當作自己的媽媽,
結果就變成了一種讓人緊張的關係
舉例來說,對親生媽媽女兒可以撒嬌,可以大聲吼回去,可以掛電話不理
可以口吻不耐煩,通通沒有關係
原po舉的例子:故左右言他,敷衍很快帶過
這一點我老婆跟我岳母的對話常常就是這樣
:「好了好了,媽這我知道,你不用再講了。」
同樣的對話,親生媽媽可能聽慣了無所謂
婆婆聽了至少一開始會不高興吧
兩種解決方法
1.少接觸,隔絕衝突可能性(我覺得很有用)
2.住在一起,磨合到婆媳兩人都習慣(我沒試過不知道管不管用)
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