很無奈 - 婚姻
By Hedy
at 2013-01-14T01:54
at 2013-01-14T01:54
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結婚快一年了,最近在工作跟做家事上有不少衝突
很無奈
我跟老婆都有在工作,都是九點上班
她六點半下班,不用加班
我幾乎每天都得加班(上班打卡制,下班責任制)
現在的情況是
我每天早上先載她上班,然後我再去上班
然後晚上六點左右我去接她下班,我們一起回家或回娘家吃晚餐
吃完之後我再回公司加班,約11點下班
最近常被抱怨有三點:
1. 太常加班,常常放他一個人在家
2. 家事都她在做
3. 不浪漫
1,2點其實是相關的
每次我吃完晚餐要回公司加班
她常會酸說:好啊,你就都放我一人在家就好啦
加完班回到家,等著我的常常都是她的臭臉,說今天晚上她又做了多少家事
每次這樣被念真的很無奈
我現在的工作收入還不錯
因為目前我們經濟狀況還OK,房子車子都有了,不需要繳貸款,也有一些存款
所以我有跟她提過換一個每天可以準時下班但收入沒那麼好的工作
但她也不願意,因為她覺得我現在這份工作很不錯,是個難得的機會
家事方面目前只有倒垃圾是一定我做,其他大部分的家事還是她做
我曾跟她說其實我可以幫她分擔家事
但她就會不太高興地說:我上班那麼累,家事還是讓她做好了
所以我都是趁她睡著或不注意的時候偷偷做些家事(洗碗盤,收衣服之類的)
但畢竟這樣的機會不多,所以她還是常抱怨家事都她在做
第三點是她從交往就一直覺得我不浪漫
其實節日生日我都會買禮物寫卡片給她,也會帶她吃大餐
不過她希望我平日就要常給她驚喜,要常說些甜言蜜語給她聽
這個我真的不知道該怎麼做
加上工作真的很忙,腦袋裡沒那麼多點子
就會被說對她不用心
這幾件事她最近抱怨的越來越多
而且她不久後就要辭職不做了,自己待在家的時間越多怨氣應該會更深
我真的很煩惱,也很無奈,真的不知道該怎麼辦才好
拜託大家能開導我一下,給些建議
我實在不想一直這樣下去,真的很悶
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很無奈
我跟老婆都有在工作,都是九點上班
她六點半下班,不用加班
我幾乎每天都得加班(上班打卡制,下班責任制)
現在的情況是
我每天早上先載她上班,然後我再去上班
然後晚上六點左右我去接她下班,我們一起回家或回娘家吃晚餐
吃完之後我再回公司加班,約11點下班
最近常被抱怨有三點:
1. 太常加班,常常放他一個人在家
2. 家事都她在做
3. 不浪漫
1,2點其實是相關的
每次我吃完晚餐要回公司加班
她常會酸說:好啊,你就都放我一人在家就好啦
加完班回到家,等著我的常常都是她的臭臉,說今天晚上她又做了多少家事
每次這樣被念真的很無奈
我現在的工作收入還不錯
因為目前我們經濟狀況還OK,房子車子都有了,不需要繳貸款,也有一些存款
所以我有跟她提過換一個每天可以準時下班但收入沒那麼好的工作
但她也不願意,因為她覺得我現在這份工作很不錯,是個難得的機會
家事方面目前只有倒垃圾是一定我做,其他大部分的家事還是她做
我曾跟她說其實我可以幫她分擔家事
但她就會不太高興地說:我上班那麼累,家事還是讓她做好了
所以我都是趁她睡著或不注意的時候偷偷做些家事(洗碗盤,收衣服之類的)
但畢竟這樣的機會不多,所以她還是常抱怨家事都她在做
第三點是她從交往就一直覺得我不浪漫
其實節日生日我都會買禮物寫卡片給她,也會帶她吃大餐
不過她希望我平日就要常給她驚喜,要常說些甜言蜜語給她聽
這個我真的不知道該怎麼做
加上工作真的很忙,腦袋裡沒那麼多點子
就會被說對她不用心
這幾件事她最近抱怨的越來越多
而且她不久後就要辭職不做了,自己待在家的時間越多怨氣應該會更深
我真的很煩惱,也很無奈,真的不知道該怎麼辦才好
拜託大家能開導我一下,給些建議
我實在不想一直這樣下去,真的很悶
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