丈母娘反對女兒一家到外縣市工作 - 婚姻
By Rebecca
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at 2013-01-13T12:39
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手機發文請多見諒。
我和老婆結婚五年,育有一子一女。
婚後四年,因為離雙方工作地點近,
一直住在女方家,岳母幫忙照顧小孩到兩歲,勞苦功高。
半年前因為老婆分配到公司宿舍,
我們夫妻倆決定帶著小孩搬出來,丈母娘反應激烈,
一個月不和我老婆說話,也幾乎不和其他人說話,老婆表示很痛苦。
岳母非常強勢,在家裡都是她說了算。她很愛兩個孫子,把他們當作自己孩子一樣教育,
孫子可說是她生活重心。
最近我在一小時車程的外縣市得到一個很不錯的工作機會,收入、前景和工作內容都比現況好很多,
老婆在該地點附近也找到了不錯的工作。
因此和岳母提到要離開現居城市,
如同預期的,她反應很激烈,說我老婆這是要她提早過80歲的生活。
傳簡訊給我老婆,要她在搬家和媽媽之間二選一,若要搬家則從此一刀兩斷。
其實搬家換工作的理由我老婆和岳母說得很清楚,
以我們的薪水,想在現居地買房簡直是遙不可及,但若換工作,不但收入增加,
生活費降低,也可以輕鬆擁有自己的家,生活品質大為提升。
在小孩教育費用上也不必再緇珠必較...
可是丈母娘完全不想聽,
對她而言,像現在這樣每週能和孫子在一起兩天是最快樂的。
老婆說她隨時可以來我們家看孩子,
我們也每週會帶孩子去看她,
她卻絕決地說她一輩子也不會去我們家,我們週末回來沒有用,
她都要出門不在家。
丈母娘簡訊中還提到我老婆造成她很大的情緒困擾,她快要生病了。
我老婆看到這些話很擔心,雖然知道是威脅,
還是會怕媽媽真的怎麼樣...
以上的處境真的很兩難,
希望大家能給我們一些建議,謝謝。
對了,我岳父、大舅子和其他親人雖然都贊同我們,
但都不願介入,
因為岳母的脾氣真的很...他們都怕池魚之央-_-#
--
我和老婆結婚五年,育有一子一女。
婚後四年,因為離雙方工作地點近,
一直住在女方家,岳母幫忙照顧小孩到兩歲,勞苦功高。
半年前因為老婆分配到公司宿舍,
我們夫妻倆決定帶著小孩搬出來,丈母娘反應激烈,
一個月不和我老婆說話,也幾乎不和其他人說話,老婆表示很痛苦。
岳母非常強勢,在家裡都是她說了算。她很愛兩個孫子,把他們當作自己孩子一樣教育,
孫子可說是她生活重心。
最近我在一小時車程的外縣市得到一個很不錯的工作機會,收入、前景和工作內容都比現況好很多,
老婆在該地點附近也找到了不錯的工作。
因此和岳母提到要離開現居城市,
如同預期的,她反應很激烈,說我老婆這是要她提早過80歲的生活。
傳簡訊給我老婆,要她在搬家和媽媽之間二選一,若要搬家則從此一刀兩斷。
其實搬家換工作的理由我老婆和岳母說得很清楚,
以我們的薪水,想在現居地買房簡直是遙不可及,但若換工作,不但收入增加,
生活費降低,也可以輕鬆擁有自己的家,生活品質大為提升。
在小孩教育費用上也不必再緇珠必較...
可是丈母娘完全不想聽,
對她而言,像現在這樣每週能和孫子在一起兩天是最快樂的。
老婆說她隨時可以來我們家看孩子,
我們也每週會帶孩子去看她,
她卻絕決地說她一輩子也不會去我們家,我們週末回來沒有用,
她都要出門不在家。
丈母娘簡訊中還提到我老婆造成她很大的情緒困擾,她快要生病了。
我老婆看到這些話很擔心,雖然知道是威脅,
還是會怕媽媽真的怎麼樣...
以上的處境真的很兩難,
希望大家能給我們一些建議,謝謝。
對了,我岳父、大舅子和其他親人雖然都贊同我們,
但都不願介入,
因為岳母的脾氣真的很...他們都怕池魚之央-_-#
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