年夜飯婆媳關係問題? - 婚姻
By Kumar
at 2023-04-27T01:21
at 2023-04-27T01:21
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搭版請教一下,
若婆婆沒有直接對媳婦講那些垃圾話,但三番兩次都透過第三人的嘴(例如婆婆的閨蜜、姐
妹淘)說一些非常貶低媳婦的話,甚至當著媳婦的面退回娘家給婆婆的伴手禮。(婆婆說你
們拿回去),
以上的程度,讓媳婦不想再踏入婆婆家,也是情由可源,可以被理解的吧?
真的很不想去婆家接受婆婆的冷暴力(把你當空氣)和這麼沒水準的對待。
Ps.老公從小被否定到大,到現在跟自己爸媽講話都還有點抖,靠他幫我發聲,不如我自己
來。
※ 引述 《dear520168 (風雲無忌)》 之銘言:
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: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
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: 事情是這樣的~
: 婚前因為我本身有答應過老婆年夜飯可以今年在婆家過隔年在娘家過
: 我本來以為這件事也不是什麼大事?
: 婚後跟父母溝通後
: 才知道父母不是很認同這件事情
: 認為這件事情是我胡亂答應的
: 他們守舊的觀念就是除夕夜跟初一在婆家
: 初二跟初三回娘家是一件很正常的事情
: 不需要因此做改變
: 老婆家中是三姊妹
: 而我家中一女二男
: 我父母的觀念就是認為大家都是一人兩天很合理不需要打破
: 若是我今年除夕夜在家
: 明年除夕夜不在家,那我弟弟是不是也可以這樣
: 以後整個過年就亂套了
: 兩個兒子除夕夜都不在家?
: 所以強烈的反對此事
: 認為我不懂事亂答應太太這件事
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: 於是後來發生了
: 我媽媽用電話跟我太太說
: [妳已經結婚了,婚後要以夫家為重的話]
: 我媽的觀念跟我說
: 她覺得婚後在節慶習俗上就應該以夫家為重
: 認為如果因為這件事的改變
: 變成我們家的關係不和睦
: 那這樣乾脆[當初就不要結婚就好了啊,幹嘛出來害人]
: 因為我太太家都是女生
: 我媽媽脫口而出[誰叫他們不生兒子]才會有今天這個問題
: 整個過程我太太是沒有回應任何的對話
: 完全沉默
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: 後來因為這件事我跟我爸媽努力/爭吵?最後有達成共識
: 除夕夜可以回娘過
: 但就因為上面打的三段話
: [[妳已經結婚了,婚後要以夫家為重的話]
: [當初就不要結婚就好了啊,幹嘛出來害人]
: [誰叫他們不生兒子]
: 我太太覺得這三句話太惡毒/不尊重她及太太的父母
: 無法諒解我媽媽
: 只要看到我媽媽她就反感
: 所以她為了不想要有這方面的情緒
: 從此以後拒絕回婆家
: 我家中的聚餐她也打算拒絕參加
: 請問大家有什麼建議可以幫我嗎?
: 我該怎麼處理?
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