年夜飯婆媳關係問題? - 婚姻
By Bennie
at 2023-04-25T22:46
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看來施主是剛結婚。
比較好奇的是,你和老婆是登記結婚還是,迎娶結婚。
如果是前者登記結婚,這就是你便宜行事貪小便宜,要吃的苦果。
記住下次結婚,不要再這樣子了。
既然這麼重視年夜飯,重大節慶就該走正常迎娶的流程。
正常來說,你這個年夜飯或是小孩從母從父姓的問題,在雙方家長提親的過程,就該交給
專業的媒人婆去溝通。
不是兩方都想佔對方便宜,真的結了婚,才來說:我以為那是小事
其實你們雙方打從心底就知道,這種價值觀的事情,絕對不是小事xd
你岳家三個女兒,你自己家又這麼重視這種重大節慶,會是小事?
這就是亂省結婚錢的下場。
其實這個問題,我看了好幾代台女,基本上母子關係好的,都是這樣輪迴啦!
台女年輕的時候對抗婆婆,結果到了老了,看著自己從小疼的兒子,被另一個女的搶走,
就是這種護犢心態,婆媳問題一直無限輪迴啦!
所以整件事情,你問題最大。
你本該就該好好跟你老婆溝通,認真告訴他,年假這麼多天,你有生為人子應盡的責任和
義務,不該讓你為難。
除夕初一兩天就是在婆家過,剩下的就給老婆,這就是底線。
你自己都不敢畫底線,整天優柔寡斷,讓老婆媽媽去為了你的無能而互相戰爭,這個鍋你
揹,剛好而已。
至於你岳家哪裡,好好去跟你岳父母溝通,他們都是5-60歲的人,一定懂這人情事故,她
們會去勸她們的女兒,就不需要你老母自己去戰的遍體麟傷。
當然如果你岳家和你老婆,假如溝通都不給溝通,都不站在你的立場幫你設想一下,這個
你後半輩子絕對慘。
我認真講,這個婚如果才剛結,在沒有小孩的前提,我建議離婚,換下一個女的會更好。
好好記取這次經驗,下次結婚,千萬不要再便宜行事,貪小便宜省去不該省的結婚流程。
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比較好奇的是,你和老婆是登記結婚還是,迎娶結婚。
如果是前者登記結婚,這就是你便宜行事貪小便宜,要吃的苦果。
記住下次結婚,不要再這樣子了。
既然這麼重視年夜飯,重大節慶就該走正常迎娶的流程。
正常來說,你這個年夜飯或是小孩從母從父姓的問題,在雙方家長提親的過程,就該交給
專業的媒人婆去溝通。
不是兩方都想佔對方便宜,真的結了婚,才來說:我以為那是小事
其實你們雙方打從心底就知道,這種價值觀的事情,絕對不是小事xd
你岳家三個女兒,你自己家又這麼重視這種重大節慶,會是小事?
這就是亂省結婚錢的下場。
其實這個問題,我看了好幾代台女,基本上母子關係好的,都是這樣輪迴啦!
台女年輕的時候對抗婆婆,結果到了老了,看著自己從小疼的兒子,被另一個女的搶走,
就是這種護犢心態,婆媳問題一直無限輪迴啦!
所以整件事情,你問題最大。
你本該就該好好跟你老婆溝通,認真告訴他,年假這麼多天,你有生為人子應盡的責任和
義務,不該讓你為難。
除夕初一兩天就是在婆家過,剩下的就給老婆,這就是底線。
你自己都不敢畫底線,整天優柔寡斷,讓老婆媽媽去為了你的無能而互相戰爭,這個鍋你
揹,剛好而已。
至於你岳家哪裡,好好去跟你岳父母溝通,他們都是5-60歲的人,一定懂這人情事故,她
們會去勸她們的女兒,就不需要你老母自己去戰的遍體麟傷。
當然如果你岳家和你老婆,假如溝通都不給溝通,都不站在你的立場幫你設想一下,這個
你後半輩子絕對慘。
我認真講,這個婚如果才剛結,在沒有小孩的前提,我建議離婚,換下一個女的會更好。
好好記取這次經驗,下次結婚,千萬不要再便宜行事,貪小便宜省去不該省的結婚流程。
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