年夜飯婆媳關係問題? - 婚姻
By Mary
at 2023-04-26T03:31
at 2023-04-26T03:31
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你最大的錯誤為二
1、你跟你媽說這是你老婆的主意
2、你讓你媽直接教育你老婆
我真的建議所有男人遇到類似事情
一定要把持兩個大原則
1、任何主意都是你的主意
2、以1為前提跟雙方間接溝通
不過你大錯已成也沒什麼辦法了
只能花時間好好的磨過去
靠上述兩個主要原則
當雙面人慢慢營造善意環境來改善
例如對你媽說
「其實是我主動提議希望討老婆和娘家開心」
「老婆被我餿主意打動才會說提看看」
「我以為妳跟爸不會介意」
然後跟你老婆說
「我媽不是那個意思」
「我媽本來就很白目情急會亂講話」
「老人家觀念改不過來是我媽不對」
「其實我媽以前都一直誇妳跟娘家」
然後三不五時假借對方名義稱讚
逢年過節也借對方名義送禮
禮多人不怪啦
總之你媽一定挺你
所以這一趴你就善意謊言先穩住
你再怎麼白目你媽都不會真心怪你
你甚至可以說你ptt男女版看太多
為了追你老婆所以才有餿主意
你媽只會覺得這兒子很傻B而已
然後跟她說因為這樣老婆被誤會不太開心
叫妳媽配合一下挽救婚姻
但你老婆這邊就不太好解決
畢竟她是真的受到委屈
一來你愛裝先進答應在先卻食言
二來你媽真的講話不帶腦子
這真的只能慢慢磨+你老婆想通
因為說真的人老了吼
講話真的會不經大腦越來越白目
所以才會有人說老人像小孩
你要老人改觀念多先進是不可能的
但人年輕的時候是無法體會的
除非等自己老了
或至親也變老番癲才會知道
如果這樣久了之後
你老婆還是一定要抵制婆家所有活動
那你只能認了吧
你就娶到比較幼稚的老婆
愛跟自己生活過不去只為了一口氣
那就這樣吧還能怎麼樣呢?
你該做的都有做好就好了
※ 引述《dear520168 (風雲無忌)》之銘言:
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: 事情是這樣的~
: 婚前因為我本身有答應過老婆年夜飯可以今年在婆家過隔年在娘家過
: 我本來以為這件事也不是什麼大事?
: 婚後跟父母溝通後
: 才知道父母不是很認同這件事情
: 認為這件事情是我胡亂答應的
: 他們守舊的觀念就是除夕夜跟初一在婆家
: 初二跟初三回娘家是一件很正常的事情
: 不需要因此做改變
: 老婆家中是三姊妹
: 而我家中一女二男
: 我父母的觀念就是認為大家都是一人兩天很合理不需要打破
: 若是我今年除夕夜在家
: 明年除夕夜不在家,那我弟弟是不是也可以這樣
: 以後整個過年就亂套了
: 兩個兒子除夕夜都不在家?
: 所以強烈的反對此事
: 認為我不懂事亂答應太太這件事
: 於是後來發生了
: 我媽媽用電話跟我太太說
: [妳已經結婚了,婚後要以夫家為重的話]
: 我媽的觀念跟我說
: 她覺得婚後在節慶習俗上就應該以夫家為重
: 認為如果因為這件事的改變
: 變成我們家的關係不和睦
: 那這樣乾脆[當初就不要結婚就好了啊,幹嘛出來害人]
: 因為我太太家都是女生
: 我媽媽脫口而出[誰叫他們不生兒子]才會有今天這個問題
: 整個過程我太太是沒有回應任何的對話
: 完全沉默
: 後來因為這件事我跟我爸媽努力/爭吵?最後有達成共識
: 除夕夜可以回娘過
: 但就因為上面打的三段話
: [[妳已經結婚了,婚後要以夫家為重的話]
: [當初就不要結婚就好了啊,幹嘛出來害人]
: [誰叫他們不生兒子]
: 我太太覺得這三句話太惡毒/不尊重她及太太的父母
: 無法諒解我媽媽
: 只要看到我媽媽她就反感
: 所以她為了不想要有這方面的情緒
: 從此以後拒絕回婆家
: 我家中的聚餐她也打算拒絕參加
: 請問大家有什麼建議可以幫我嗎?
: 我該怎麼處理?
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