年夜飯婆媳關係問題? - 婚姻
By Heather
at 2023-04-27T00:37
at 2023-04-27T00:37
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先說結論,如果你太太在完全沒有激怒你媽的狀況之下,而你媽卻這麼不體諒
你太太的立場,那麼真的少見面為妙!
: 但就因為上面打的三段話
基本上這三段話其實根本也沒什麼好狠毒或是邪惡了!
只是觀念上的差異而已。
: [[妳已經結婚了,婚後要以夫家為重的話]
這點就是很古老的概念,但是回頭想想老人有老概念不是很正常的事情嗎?
而且這句真的有貶抑太太的婆家或是太太嗎?其實也沒有,只是過去的一種習慣
也是你媽媽幾十年的生活被教育的重要概念,今天我們回頭過來看,如果我們幾十年
認為都是對的觀念,結果被強迫得打破了,那麼我們自己的反應會是什麼?我想多數人
都是會強力的反抗,這也是很正常的事情,只是有些人就是比較不懂得體諒別人,
硬要把自己個概念凌駕於他人之上,你媽媽是,你太太也是。
兩個人互不接受對方的概念。
: [當初就不要結婚就好了啊,幹嘛出來害人]
這點也是一樣的,兩個人的概念差異,導致於有這樣的認知。
: [誰叫他們不生兒子]
這點最有趣啦!我只能說糾結在這一點的女性,本質上就是認為生男比生女好!
所以我認為這應該是婆媳兩個人共同的認知。
如果說生女兒更好!那麼"誰叫他們不生兒子"這不就表示生的很棒嗎!!都是更好的女兒呢!
如果退一步說,生兒子和生女兒依樣好,那麼這句話一點意義都沒有,因為生兒子和女兒
是一樣的阿!!
所以為什麼會覺得這很惡毒~就是因為覺得生兒子比生女兒好,所以生兒子很重要,
因為這樣所以被提到沒生兒子就是一種貶抑的言語!!
: 請問大家有什麼建議可以幫我嗎?
: 我該怎麼處理?
就不要讓他們見面,如果你受不了你媽的勒索,那就離婚吧!!反正他們倆個
都不是可以體諒對方的人。
--
你太太的立場,那麼真的少見面為妙!
: 但就因為上面打的三段話
基本上這三段話其實根本也沒什麼好狠毒或是邪惡了!
只是觀念上的差異而已。
: [[妳已經結婚了,婚後要以夫家為重的話]
這點就是很古老的概念,但是回頭想想老人有老概念不是很正常的事情嗎?
而且這句真的有貶抑太太的婆家或是太太嗎?其實也沒有,只是過去的一種習慣
也是你媽媽幾十年的生活被教育的重要概念,今天我們回頭過來看,如果我們幾十年
認為都是對的觀念,結果被強迫得打破了,那麼我們自己的反應會是什麼?我想多數人
都是會強力的反抗,這也是很正常的事情,只是有些人就是比較不懂得體諒別人,
硬要把自己個概念凌駕於他人之上,你媽媽是,你太太也是。
兩個人互不接受對方的概念。
: [當初就不要結婚就好了啊,幹嘛出來害人]
這點也是一樣的,兩個人的概念差異,導致於有這樣的認知。
: [誰叫他們不生兒子]
這點最有趣啦!我只能說糾結在這一點的女性,本質上就是認為生男比生女好!
所以我認為這應該是婆媳兩個人共同的認知。
如果說生女兒更好!那麼"誰叫他們不生兒子"這不就表示生的很棒嗎!!都是更好的女兒呢!
如果退一步說,生兒子和生女兒依樣好,那麼這句話一點意義都沒有,因為生兒子和女兒
是一樣的阿!!
所以為什麼會覺得這很惡毒~就是因為覺得生兒子比生女兒好,所以生兒子很重要,
因為這樣所以被提到沒生兒子就是一種貶抑的言語!!
: 請問大家有什麼建議可以幫我嗎?
: 我該怎麼處理?
就不要讓他們見面,如果你受不了你媽的勒索,那就離婚吧!!反正他們倆個
都不是可以體諒對方的人。
--
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