小姑生小孩 - 婚姻
By Sierra Rose
at 2012-11-30T16:42
at 2012-11-30T16:42
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很多老一輩的觀念是有能力的手足就要幫沒能力的手足
媳婦會賺更好,他們要錢的時候更沒有後顧之憂。
就是要你拿錢的時候媳婦的錢也算進去,
會跟兒子說你們家明明就夠用為甚麼不拿出來?
當有能力的兒子被掏空,有天真的需要用錢了,
就突然跟兒子說要你靠自己,甚至開始指責媳婦偷藏錢,敗家之類的
我奶奶做過這種事,我婆婆也做過(我想她現在還在打我們主意)
原po如果另外有財務計畫,請趕快跟先生溝通,
(先生全給你管錢的話最好,很多理由不拿出來例 保險,定存,基金之類的)
水電雜支照人頭攤 你和先生出 4/7 (包括奶奶和婆婆)
如果先生聽不進去妳又無法掌管先生的薪水,
請妳千萬不要拿自己賺的錢去包小姑紅包之類的,
(婆家那邊的喜喪拜拜本來就是先生要出的,你沒有義務)
補貼婆家的房租水電雜支妳出你自己的那份1/7,一切照人頭均攤。
再溝通觀察個一兩年,情形不妙就趁沒孩子快逃吧。
真的走到這種地步,我想先生還是愛他家人大過於你
他們要一家和樂是他們家的事,這種自私的家庭不要也罷。
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