小叔想標法拍屋 婆婆跟我們借錢 - 婚姻
By Kyle
at 2012-02-07T17:44
at 2012-02-07T17:44
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之前我婆婆也是叫我老公拿出來幫他姐姐~~保證、一定會還的~~(我婆婆說,她擔保)
我老公他姐姐也是買房子~~借了二百五十萬~~(那時是說,她的錢都放做生意,不太能動)
(原本要借三百,我說,我買了一份保險,要幫以後我的小孩存教育金的)
錢到現在~~連一個影子都沒有看到~~~更別說要還~
我婆婆還千交待萬訂嚀~~叫我們不要在提起了~~也不能讓公公知道~~有傻眼吧~~
但是事實就是這樣~~
當時,也有想要寫借據~~但是這黑臉,不論是不是您提的~~都會被算在您身上。
(所以,不用想,寫借據,本票這事,婆婆只會覺得您在"搗蛋")
我們目前有房子,也在貸款中,如果多二百五來還,壓力輕很多吧!
但是婆婆覺得,反正她跟公公百年歸老時,他們住的房子就我們的。沒什麼好計較的。
但是,自己賺的跟別人給的感覺不同吧!何況,遺產如何分配,我們跟本沒有想那麼多
有版友建議銀行代墊款,我覺得是很不錯的選擇~~但是要如何開口,就自己斟酌~~
我這慘痛的經驗,希望您不要跟我一樣~~~
※ 引述《PeterRabbit (小兔彼得)》之銘言:
: 過年的時候小叔提到想標一間法拍屋約600萬(大馬路邊的透天厝)
: 最近聽婆婆說才知道法拍屋要準備足夠的現金
: 不是一般購屋時只付頭期款就可以了
: 想當然耳... 他和女友所持有的現金應該有些差距
: 現在貸款無法及時拿到錢
: 所以他們最近就開始籌錢 因為離投標的時間近了
: 婆婆就希望我們能多拿一點錢出來幫忙
: 我們在一個房價頗高的地方工作 新建案都要千萬了(含公設不到50坪的大樓)
: 雖然已經結婚 但還在物色房子
: 因為我們喜歡的買不起 買得起的以後要換屋可能條件也不好
: 對我們來說 這些積蓄很重要
: 縱使聽婆婆說 等小叔的貸款一下來就會還錢
: 但是我還是有很大的不安全感
: 畢竟錢離開了自己的手 就不是自己可以掌控的了
: (不是有人曾說過:錢還沒借出去的時候是別人求你借錢給他
: 錢借出去之後是你求別人人家也不見得會還你)
: 雖然錢出去了可能會再回來
: 但是有沒有什麼方法能避免花錢看清一個(家)人的情況發生呢?
: 不借是不可能的 我老公只是說沒辦法借到婆婆開的價碼就被罵到臭頭
: 被婆婆質疑我們亂花錢 (我們比小叔他們省多了)
: 希望各位前輩能給予一些建議 先謝謝大家了....
: 另外, 如果有什麼失言之處敬請鞭小力一點
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