該住婆家還是在外租屋? - 婚姻
By Callum
at 2012-02-07T12:48
at 2012-02-07T12:48
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再過幾個月就要生產了~
目前在外租小套房待產
先生和我預計五年後才買房,想要多存點頭期款再看看
婆婆透露希望生完就搬回婆家住
好處是可以省錢、公婆可以看到孫女及我先生,方便停車
但也有爭扎的點如下
1.婆家是舊式房子,只有1間小廁所,而且只能淋浴
加上婆家有公公、婆婆、大伯再加上先生、我及小孩要輪一間廁所
懷孕時因頻尿及常孕吐還有一些特殊原因就住外面
2.深怕教養方式會有出入,加上我不是很會聽台語,有時都搞不懂
3.因為婆家和先生的奶奶及二伯小叔是三棟連一起的,二伯交友關係,
有時會有些比較複雜的人出沒
4.沒有曬內衣的地方,因為婆家除了婆婆外都男的,
都需要在廁所等內衣滴乾再放在房間陰乾,之前因為放廁所比較久有被唸一下
但不放廁所水會一直滴在房間,真的沒地方可以曬了
搬出去住的考量點:
1.會花較多的錢:水電、房租、家電用品…等,因為我先生是自己創業,
我們一起在他公司打拼,所以很多錢都要運用在設備及人力上
2.考量到公婆會想念我先生和孫女
3.怕小孩半夜哭會影響隔壁住戶(考慮承租大間套房)
我先生是覺得我開心就好,如果花點錢能減少麻煩的話~
但我又想省錢加上我也希望我先生能常看到父母~~
唉唉,請大家給點意見!!謝謝
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目前在外租小套房待產
先生和我預計五年後才買房,想要多存點頭期款再看看
婆婆透露希望生完就搬回婆家住
好處是可以省錢、公婆可以看到孫女及我先生,方便停車
但也有爭扎的點如下
1.婆家是舊式房子,只有1間小廁所,而且只能淋浴
加上婆家有公公、婆婆、大伯再加上先生、我及小孩要輪一間廁所
懷孕時因頻尿及常孕吐還有一些特殊原因就住外面
2.深怕教養方式會有出入,加上我不是很會聽台語,有時都搞不懂
3.因為婆家和先生的奶奶及二伯小叔是三棟連一起的,二伯交友關係,
有時會有些比較複雜的人出沒
4.沒有曬內衣的地方,因為婆家除了婆婆外都男的,
都需要在廁所等內衣滴乾再放在房間陰乾,之前因為放廁所比較久有被唸一下
但不放廁所水會一直滴在房間,真的沒地方可以曬了
搬出去住的考量點:
1.會花較多的錢:水電、房租、家電用品…等,因為我先生是自己創業,
我們一起在他公司打拼,所以很多錢都要運用在設備及人力上
2.考量到公婆會想念我先生和孫女
3.怕小孩半夜哭會影響隔壁住戶(考慮承租大間套房)
我先生是覺得我開心就好,如果花點錢能減少麻煩的話~
但我又想省錢加上我也希望我先生能常看到父母~~
唉唉,請大家給點意見!!謝謝
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