婆婆真是有得比~~~~~ - 婚姻
By Callum
at 2011-08-24T17:56
at 2011-08-24T17:56
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我只能說家家有本難念的經,沒經歷過那種精神壓力沒法體會。
我只是覺得小孩是一個獨立個體,或許在學生時期家長適度的
『規定』與管教是必須的,但都已長大成人出社會成家立業,
做父母的應該要適度放手了。
我婆婆的個性我在之前推文有提過,她跟我先生家族中的每一人
都吵過,連他叔叔們都已經結婚生子她還要去管人家家庭怎樣用
錢,這管夠寬了吧?!
我本不是個愛跟人計較的人,或許嘴巴上會說說但實際上並不會
去實踐,但當你發現若你不會計較時你就被人吃夠夠時,那怎辦
?我也有自己家庭要養,小孩要顧耶~在他家吃飯時若不眼明手快
,很多菜會被一掃而空,剛開始我也會覺得要留菜給別人吃,但
當你發現你還在客氣時肚子卻扁了,你該怎辦?所以我後來也學
會趕快夾菜不要客氣了。
這篇文沒想到引起這樣大爭論,呵~真是我沒料到的,想說從我
大學玩bbs到現在也十幾年有了吧!?所發的文也沒像這次這樣熱烈耶~
嗨~大家好,我是flyseatw!!愛自由的水瓶座!!
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我只是覺得小孩是一個獨立個體,或許在學生時期家長適度的
『規定』與管教是必須的,但都已長大成人出社會成家立業,
做父母的應該要適度放手了。
我婆婆的個性我在之前推文有提過,她跟我先生家族中的每一人
都吵過,連他叔叔們都已經結婚生子她還要去管人家家庭怎樣用
錢,這管夠寬了吧?!
我本不是個愛跟人計較的人,或許嘴巴上會說說但實際上並不會
去實踐,但當你發現若你不會計較時你就被人吃夠夠時,那怎辦
?我也有自己家庭要養,小孩要顧耶~在他家吃飯時若不眼明手快
,很多菜會被一掃而空,剛開始我也會覺得要留菜給別人吃,但
當你發現你還在客氣時肚子卻扁了,你該怎辦?所以我後來也學
會趕快夾菜不要客氣了。
這篇文沒想到引起這樣大爭論,呵~真是我沒料到的,想說從我
大學玩bbs到現在也十幾年有了吧!?所發的文也沒像這次這樣熱烈耶~
嗨~大家好,我是flyseatw!!愛自由的水瓶座!!
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