回你家 - 婚姻
By Ophelia
at 2011-11-23T18:24
at 2011-11-23T18:24
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發這篇或許會被說媽寶,長不大
但
自從結婚以來,我發現我那傳統到極致的媽媽
很喜歡把我跟娘家的界線分清楚
並不是說她把我當外人,或是不愛我了
在她傳統的觀念裡面,女兒嫁出去了,就是出去了
因此每次我回娘家的時候,常常會聽到我娘說
:那個"妳家"那邊八拉八拉@#$#
:等一下要"回家" 的時候,記得帶水果回去
:下星期神明要拜拜,記得多準備一份牲禮
我:為什麼?以前沒結婚的時候,妳也沒叫我自己買啊
娘:那不一樣,妳已經嫁出去了,就要自己算一份
我:那弟弟也沒有住在家裡,他住外面,他是不是可以自己算一份
娘:那不一樣,妳弟弟沒有嫁人...他的牲禮算在我的份
反正常常提到我和老公的家,就要對我說:妳家
有一次我妹妹聽了都忍不住跳出來說:什麼妳家妳家的
姊姊的家在這裡!
永遠都在這裡!
有一回,媽媽又把"妳家"掛在嘴上
我立刻提醒她:這裡也是我的家啊,要說XX(老公名字)家
我又沒有冠夫姓
其實,看到這邊會有人覺得我媽媽一定比較勢利
但並不是,她三不五時還是會打電話跟我噓寒問暖
最近我感冒了,連在上班都會接到她的電話
問我感冒好了沒有
連我說生小孩要回娘家坐月子,她也沒意見
只是她太傳統了,什麼事情都要以婆家為主
只要娘家有什麼活動,我回去參加
常會被當成別人家的一份子
對我而言,娘家畢竟是我生活了三十年的地方
這一下子就被分割成外人,感覺真的很.........
PS. 就在我剛剛回娘家要拿自己賺的錢給媽媽
媽媽還在那邊說不能拿我的錢
拜託...婚前拿的可精的呢!一分一毫都不能少
現在變得這麼客套....一.一
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