可以分享一下結婚後幸福的事情嗎? - 婚姻
By Donna
at 2011-12-08T08:42
at 2011-12-08T08:42
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在我很年輕還沒談過戀愛的時候,
我想像中的戀愛對象,體貼疼愛女孩的程度,就該像從瓊瑤小說中走出的白馬王子。
談了第一次戀愛後,這種不切實際的想像做了很大幅的修正,
慢慢覺得態度是對等而互相的,正有一點點貼近現實世界的真實情況時,
又遇到了我家小白。
小白的脾氣好得不得了,據他的說法是我們從來沒有吵過架:
「因為都是滴答在罵我,我都沒有罵滴答,不算吵架。」
不太會說話的他,總是乖乖被罵,被罵完還被要求反省說對不起。
非常疼我,我去哪裡他都要開車載我,不太放心我自己騎車去,
每次去大賣場買了一堆東西,回到家下了車我只要直接兩手空空地上樓即可,
他會自己一趟趟上上下下提東西上樓,他不想我提任何一點東西怕我累了。
婚前所有的存款、婚後所有的薪水都交給我,
問他每個月要給他多少零用錢,他還傻笑說隨我。
他本身節省得不得了,有時去逛街想幫他添點新裝,卻總被他制止,
對待我和寶寶就很大方,記得我愛吃的咚咚時常找機會去買,
我想買任何貴的東西、我想投入多少理財操作,完全不用先問過他,
什麼財產都登記在我名下,叫他蓋章他就乖乖蓋章。
而且很愛寶寶,除了一般我們上班的時間是由保母到府照顧寶寶外,
我們下班回到家,他和我照顧寶寶的時間比例大約是10:1,
星期一到五晚上,他從下班回家就和寶寶玩到半夜寶寶睡著,催我好好休息,
週末整天,我們一起幫寶寶洗澡,他照顧寶寶一整天,
出門在外,他將寶寶揹在胸前四處走,細心避開任何可能危險或不健康的事物。
家事裡我大概只需要將衣服丟到洗衣機去洗、收下衣服折好,
但即便如此,他也時常搶著做,然後傻氣十足地說:「不想老婆還要做家事嘛~」
星期一到五,由保母煮飯和打掃,小白洗碗、他倒垃圾、他疊棉被,
週末小白還會煮出廚藝不錯的整日餐點,
到現在婚後一年多,他還會幫我開車門,他還是親親我抱抱我後才上班,
他還是手牽手怕我走丟了,他還是將我的話放在心上去做,
他還是想做什麼事、想買什麼東西、想去哪裡都先問過我,
在外用完衛生紙時,他還是提供他的衣袖給我擤鼻涕,
而且他還會比較一下上衣和外套哪件材質比較好,仍然傻傻地說:
「外套是純棉的,會比較舒服,你用外套擤鼻涕好了,比較不傷皮膚。」
我媽喜歡他喜歡入心,老是叫我不要欺負小白,
疼他疼到有時我都會吃醋覺得媽媽偏心。
我深感自己極其幸運,沒想到這世上竟有這麼好這麼寬容的男子,
這個男子又這麼疼我愛我呵護著我和寶寶,
我不知道日後時間會不會改變這些,
但我覺得他比我年輕時想像中白馬王子的體貼溫柔還更勝一籌,
原本對人性抱持懷疑的我,因此有了「執子之手,與子偕老」的想望,
甚至希望天下每對眷侶都能如我們般品味幸福。
※ 引述《peachyqueen (linda queen)》之銘言:
: 我本身還沒結婚(23歲),但是我姊姊結了
: 原本我覺得我姊跟我姊夫是最幸福的一對(我覺得姊夫是最標準的新好男人)
: 我媽在婚前也很稱讚我姊夫(夫家離娘家只有十分鐘的距離)
: 不過兩年後的現在,我姊突然跟我說她其實很想離婚(整個嚇到我)
: 我姊每天都跑回娘家批評姊夫,我媽也跟我姊一鼻孔出氣
: 不外乎就 1.公婆問題
: 2.小孩教養問題
: 3.我姊夫忙工作不帶我姊出去玩
: --------------------------------------------------------
: 現在我媽跟我姊每天都在警告我
: 1.男人婚前再怎麼好都沒用,結婚後只會變更懶更糟(除非他體貼到爆炸)
: 2.男人婚前要全部都聽你的話,不聽的話結婚後就更不會聽
: 3.婚前最好都住女生家,女生不准跑男生家,讓他住習慣之後就會直接留在娘家
: 4.嫁近一點,以後吵架才可以躲娘家
: ---------------------------------------------------------
: 我知道她們說的話有些道理
: 可是我覺得我媽跟我姊也蠻偏激的
: 但是我媽跟我姊就是以這樣的標準 檢視我現在的男友(好可怕阿....)
: ---------------------------------------------------------
: 請問結過婚的妳們~
: 真的有這麼不幸福嗎?
: 真的每個人都覺得婚姻是墳墓嗎?
: ---------------------------------------------------------
: 我們學校有兩個男老師(同事)就是超好的拔拔(他們35歲快40歲)
: 每次上班有好吃的東西 馬上叫學生送去給老婆
: 結婚的賀卡 邀請函 結婚影片 都是他們自己一手策畫 給老婆驚喜
: 昨天我們幫老師慶生 老師第一句話馬上說
: ""等等 我先打給我老婆 跟她說你們在幫我慶生""(但他也不過晚10分鐘放學罷了)
: 產檢沒有一次缺席跟忘記,都拜託我們跟他調課(這麼好的男人當然要幫他)
: 好老公還是有的阿!!
: 還是因為他們已經快40才這樣?
: 各位人妻~
: 可以跟我分享你們幸福的事件嗎?
: 不然我覺得結婚好可怕阿!!!!
: 謝謝~~~~拜託了
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