我這樣會太過份嗎? - 婚姻
By Agnes
at 2011-12-07T22:46
at 2011-12-07T22:46
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話說我個性比較少言,但我婆婆屬於愛講話愛交際的人,自然也希望媳婦一樣
但其實我婆婆常常失言得罪人(--> 包括我)
比方說,在我們當初準備要結婚的時候,一天和老公及婆婆去百貨公司買結婚用的領帶
遇到的櫃姊八面玲瓏很會介紹產品人又很親切
買好東西之後,我們轉身離去時,我婆婆突然說了一句:娶到這樣的媳婦該多好......
我:..........(真抱歉你兒子已經決定娶我了)
或是剛結婚後,發現我常不太會主動跟他聊天
(我看到長輩會叫人,跟我討論事情或問我問題也都是正常回答)
就問了我"很多次":你爸在家是不是都很嚴肅,都不會講笑話的?
我:............(關我爸什麼事情?)
之前曾經PO過文,因婆家娘家都在台中距離過近,回娘家的時候被公婆堵到被念了
現在我們一家人全部都搬回台中,住在婆家的一間公寓裡(貸款我們付,公婆另外住)
與公婆接觸的時間變多了,這類的情況也更多
最近因為小孩子的教養問題,摩擦又更多
我個人是從小讓小孩子自己睡自己的房間,而且不陪睡。
後來我公婆來的時候,每次都會陪小孩睡讓我覺得很困擾
我就直接跟我婆婆說不用陪他睡,但是他完全不聽
或是有時候我在管教小孩,他就會跟我唱反調
小孩子是很精明的,發現有爺爺奶奶在就有雙重標準
讓我在教育小孩的時候很頭痛
有時候我當場就會不講話走開去做我自己的事情
或是,其實我現在是在家工作(公司主管信任我我很感激),還帶各小孩
所以其實我常常晚上等小孩睡了之後還加班把事情做到更好
但是我婆婆就會說,或找別的朋友來說:你閒閒在家應該要做更多的事情....
這些也就算了,畢竟這種程度在婚姻版或媽寶版上只是小 Case
最近有位阿姨(婆婆的大姊)開始從事直銷事業(好像是賣保健食品吧)
我婆婆就會說他們五個姊妹都是老師退休(除了我婆婆管工廠外勞)
退休老師的"地位比較高",聽到大姊為了做直銷
"降低格調","Low"到連社區游泳隊都去參加都很不可思議
我媽是社區志工隊長,我爸也是對社區活動貢獻很多,我婆婆也知道
所以這些話我聽了心裡非常介意
從此之後,我對我公婆就是看到打招呼
其餘的事情非必要不會跟他們說話,或是他問我答就這樣,不會主動對他笑
P.S.我對直銷沒有意見,錢對我來說只要不是非法來的就是錢,職業也是一樣
請不要戰直銷,謝謝~~~~
最近我公婆也發覺事情有異,所以找我老公深談
但是其間一直強調"我們家的小孩教養都很好看到人都會打招呼"
覺得我是不是不尊重他們?
我老公有跟他們反應小孩教養上的問題,但是直銷格調高低的事情沒有說
我老公是希望我可以發揮EQ把表面功夫至少做好
但是我看到我公婆就很難控制我臉部的肌肉
甚至其實心裡也有一點報復心態-->
哼,想要一個八面玲瓏的媳婦嗎?自己去娶一個比較快,反正我就是這樣子
其實硬要把臉皮拉起來我也是可以做到,只是最近Fu很不好
想請問大家,因為我婆婆講話比較.......直白........
我就這樣冷臉對待他們,會太過份嗎?
--
但其實我婆婆常常失言得罪人(--> 包括我)
比方說,在我們當初準備要結婚的時候,一天和老公及婆婆去百貨公司買結婚用的領帶
遇到的櫃姊八面玲瓏很會介紹產品人又很親切
買好東西之後,我們轉身離去時,我婆婆突然說了一句:娶到這樣的媳婦該多好......
我:..........(真抱歉你兒子已經決定娶我了)
或是剛結婚後,發現我常不太會主動跟他聊天
(我看到長輩會叫人,跟我討論事情或問我問題也都是正常回答)
就問了我"很多次":你爸在家是不是都很嚴肅,都不會講笑話的?
我:............(關我爸什麼事情?)
之前曾經PO過文,因婆家娘家都在台中距離過近,回娘家的時候被公婆堵到被念了
現在我們一家人全部都搬回台中,住在婆家的一間公寓裡(貸款我們付,公婆另外住)
與公婆接觸的時間變多了,這類的情況也更多
最近因為小孩子的教養問題,摩擦又更多
我個人是從小讓小孩子自己睡自己的房間,而且不陪睡。
後來我公婆來的時候,每次都會陪小孩睡讓我覺得很困擾
我就直接跟我婆婆說不用陪他睡,但是他完全不聽
或是有時候我在管教小孩,他就會跟我唱反調
小孩子是很精明的,發現有爺爺奶奶在就有雙重標準
讓我在教育小孩的時候很頭痛
有時候我當場就會不講話走開去做我自己的事情
或是,其實我現在是在家工作(公司主管信任我我很感激),還帶各小孩
所以其實我常常晚上等小孩睡了之後還加班把事情做到更好
但是我婆婆就會說,或找別的朋友來說:你閒閒在家應該要做更多的事情....
這些也就算了,畢竟這種程度在婚姻版或媽寶版上只是小 Case
最近有位阿姨(婆婆的大姊)開始從事直銷事業(好像是賣保健食品吧)
我婆婆就會說他們五個姊妹都是老師退休(除了我婆婆管工廠外勞)
退休老師的"地位比較高",聽到大姊為了做直銷
"降低格調","Low"到連社區游泳隊都去參加都很不可思議
我媽是社區志工隊長,我爸也是對社區活動貢獻很多,我婆婆也知道
所以這些話我聽了心裡非常介意
從此之後,我對我公婆就是看到打招呼
其餘的事情非必要不會跟他們說話,或是他問我答就這樣,不會主動對他笑
P.S.我對直銷沒有意見,錢對我來說只要不是非法來的就是錢,職業也是一樣
請不要戰直銷,謝謝~~~~
最近我公婆也發覺事情有異,所以找我老公深談
但是其間一直強調"我們家的小孩教養都很好看到人都會打招呼"
覺得我是不是不尊重他們?
我老公有跟他們反應小孩教養上的問題,但是直銷格調高低的事情沒有說
我老公是希望我可以發揮EQ把表面功夫至少做好
但是我看到我公婆就很難控制我臉部的肌肉
甚至其實心裡也有一點報復心態-->
哼,想要一個八面玲瓏的媳婦嗎?自己去娶一個比較快,反正我就是這樣子
其實硬要把臉皮拉起來我也是可以做到,只是最近Fu很不好
想請問大家,因為我婆婆講話比較.......直白........
我就這樣冷臉對待他們,會太過份嗎?
--
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