公婆很迷信一直要在新家擺設奇怪的東西 - 婚姻
By Andy
at 2011-12-12T09:38
at 2011-12-12T09:38
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唉 最近搬新家又換工作
新工作在跨縣市每天要多花兩個小時的車程來回
搬家打包整理大掃除又搞的我非常疲累
新家的整修 家具電器的採買都是我媽和我一起做的 好不容易整修完成
搬家這天我娘家的家人 老公 和婆婆都有來幫忙
幸好我婆婆有來而且真的幫了很大的忙 包括整理舊家打掃收拾新家等
不然我自己一個人真的忙不過來 我老公對這些家事一竅不通
但是打掃就打掃 我後來才發現 我婆婆在家裡一些角落藏了很多八卦
包括大門內外的地墊下面 書桌抽屜裡
(算了 這些東西藏在我看不到的地方 眼不見為淨 就不跟他們計較)
還說主臥室長的像菜刀狀 要買個門簾把刀柄部分隔開
這個我還可以接受 反正主臥室買個線簾略作內外區分 不會讓客人一眼就看進去也不錯
但是我不能接受的是 我們家客廳大門一進來就面對一扇窗
通風很好 而且門一打開 光線就灑進來 很舒服
但是公婆說因為我們面對的是下樓梯 要把那扇窗子封起來
而且不可以用其他東西封 一定要用一面很大很大的鏡子
門一推開就看到大鏡子 (這不會晚上自己嚇到自己嗎?)
大家一定會問我的老公呢? 他的意見如何 ?
我的老公很好 人很溫和 平時也不是個媽寶
但是我只能說 他也是從小就耳濡目染的受害者
如果一個人從小父母就這麼迷信 自己住台北擠的要死的小房子
寧可把錢花在供養師父 買八卦 買紙做的金磚
要選擇哪種工作 要在哪裡發展 遇到工作上的瓶頸和麻煩糾紛
都要問師父 自然而然 我的先生對這些事情也很依賴
公婆和老公都算是知識份子 公公還在當大學教授
雖然結婚以前我就大致知道這些事情 也感到些許反感
但是老公和公婆都對我很好 我只是暗自下定決定
不准讓這些師父和迷信干擾到我和我的孩子
所以以前也從未明白跟公婆表示我不相信這些 風水再好 自己不努力 都是假的
我老公知道我不喜歡這些東西 也只敢偷偷的問師父 或是很婉轉的跟我說
有一部分的我 是希望藉這個機會 讓公婆知道我不喜歡這件事情
以後也盡量不要干涉到我和我的孩子
但是因為公婆和老公都是心地很善良 人很好的老實人 實在不想傷害到他們
我該怎麼辦呢?
我們住高雄 沒有跟公婆住
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