不辦婚禮 如何顧全長輩禮數? - 婚姻
By Gilbert
at 2013-01-16T21:49
at 2013-01-16T21:49
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我跟老公結婚快一年,本來就沒打算辦婚禮,
因為我們兩個都不喜歡辦婚禮的感覺,
感覺像是長輩的魁儡,都是迎合長輩意思辦的,
邀請的親友可能一半我們都不認識。
而且我們也不喜歡婚禮大部分的人只在乎下一道菜是什麼,
還有又要被炸紅包、炸多少的問題,很少真心的祝福。
我們也不喜歡熱鬧,所以都對辦婚禮沒啥興趣。
不想為了迎合長輩浪費錢、浪費時間籌備婚禮。
(喜歡辦婚禮的人可能不認同,只是說明
為何我們夫妻不想辦婚禮,沒有要筆戰的意思。)
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婚後不久我就發現已經懷孕,
所以長輩就暫時沒追問辦婚禮的事。
我們跟雙方父母都表達不想辦婚禮、拍婚紗的想法。
但還是想顧全我們家女方父母的想法,希望對親戚方面能夠交待。
我媽媽是說至少產後買喜餅分送親友。
但我是想買喜餅這樣真能堵住那些碎嘴的親戚的口嗎?
不想讓父母難做,但又不想浪費錢且不喜歡的去籌辦婚禮,
或是買了喜餅,仍有讓父母難做的困擾。
所以想請問大家要怎辦比較好,麻煩大家了。
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因為我們兩個都不喜歡辦婚禮的感覺,
感覺像是長輩的魁儡,都是迎合長輩意思辦的,
邀請的親友可能一半我們都不認識。
而且我們也不喜歡婚禮大部分的人只在乎下一道菜是什麼,
還有又要被炸紅包、炸多少的問題,很少真心的祝福。
我們也不喜歡熱鬧,所以都對辦婚禮沒啥興趣。
不想為了迎合長輩浪費錢、浪費時間籌備婚禮。
(喜歡辦婚禮的人可能不認同,只是說明
為何我們夫妻不想辦婚禮,沒有要筆戰的意思。)
*
婚後不久我就發現已經懷孕,
所以長輩就暫時沒追問辦婚禮的事。
我們跟雙方父母都表達不想辦婚禮、拍婚紗的想法。
但還是想顧全我們家女方父母的想法,希望對親戚方面能夠交待。
我媽媽是說至少產後買喜餅分送親友。
但我是想買喜餅這樣真能堵住那些碎嘴的親戚的口嗎?
不想讓父母難做,但又不想浪費錢且不喜歡的去籌辦婚禮,
或是買了喜餅,仍有讓父母難做的困擾。
所以想請問大家要怎辦比較好,麻煩大家了。
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