老婆請育嬰假半年,不帶小孩,還說要請一年 - 婚姻
By Franklin
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小孩最近出生,她產假休息2個月,身體已經完全恢復,
這時候說她要請育嬰假,要請半年,理由是要考公職
育嬰假期間她只剩下6000元薪水(註), 經濟負擔有點重
(註:她全薪30000,但本薪只有12000,半薪剩下6000)
經過一番討論我答應她,但是這半年的育嬰假她卻表明不帶小孩,
以下是對話內容:
我說: 你一天補習多久?
她說: 3小時
我說: 其他時間可以帶小孩啊, 晚上回來我會幫你帶
她說: 我們兩個人帶小孩,太累了
我說: 我父母可以幫忙帶,他們都已經退休,在鄉下老家也沒事做,可以來台北幫忙
她說: 我不准你父母來! 到時候他們欺負我怎麼辦?
我說: 欺負你? 他們以前有欺負過你嗎?
她說: 沒有, 但我怎麼知道會不會有婆媳問題之類的
(我聽到這裡已經有點不可思議了,結婚之後我們兩個住台北,父母都住鄉下,
我父母根本沒有欺負過她... 反倒是她自己,過性很難相處,脾氣又差)
我說: 所以..... 小孩怎麼處理?
她說: 小孩就給你父母帶,請他們帶回鄉下老家
我說: 那妳呢?
她說: 我要補習,專心面對考試
(為了這件事情吵架很多次,老婆每次都要吵到半夜2點,甚至鬧自殺,後來岳父母出面,
岳父母說: 我女兒脾氣不好,到時候會跟你父母吵架; 她以前看過精神科,吃藥好幾個月,
情緒很不穩)
後來我讓她請育嬰假,小孩讓我父母帶,結果最近又開始鬧說要請育嬰假一年
我說: 你育嬰假半年,是到六月中,國考是七月, 為什麼要多請半年育嬰假?
她說: 萬一我考不上怎麼辦? 假如考不上,我要繼續補習,再考一年
我說: 那你這一年育嬰假都不帶小孩?
她說: 對!
我說: 全台灣有哪個人跟妳一樣! 育嬰假請一年卻不帶小孩!
她說: 反正我就是要這麼做!
(然後又是吵架,她甚至說要離婚,說了好幾次)
老婆跑去跟岳母說要請育嬰假一年的事情,
岳母當場罵她: 妳不帶小孩! 憑什麼請育嬰假一年!
(老婆就當場跟岳母吵起來)
最近也是一直鬧,除了罵我之外,也罵我父母親,
我真的不知道這婚姻可以維持多久
補充說明:
1. 小孩是她堅持要生的,岳父母也堅持要生; 我跟我爸媽都說順其自然,沒逼過她
2. 她看過精神科的事,我是婚後才知道,岳母說看精神科好幾個月; 婚前都沒跟我講
--
這時候說她要請育嬰假,要請半年,理由是要考公職
育嬰假期間她只剩下6000元薪水(註), 經濟負擔有點重
(註:她全薪30000,但本薪只有12000,半薪剩下6000)
經過一番討論我答應她,但是這半年的育嬰假她卻表明不帶小孩,
以下是對話內容:
我說: 你一天補習多久?
她說: 3小時
我說: 其他時間可以帶小孩啊, 晚上回來我會幫你帶
她說: 我們兩個人帶小孩,太累了
我說: 我父母可以幫忙帶,他們都已經退休,在鄉下老家也沒事做,可以來台北幫忙
她說: 我不准你父母來! 到時候他們欺負我怎麼辦?
我說: 欺負你? 他們以前有欺負過你嗎?
她說: 沒有, 但我怎麼知道會不會有婆媳問題之類的
(我聽到這裡已經有點不可思議了,結婚之後我們兩個住台北,父母都住鄉下,
我父母根本沒有欺負過她... 反倒是她自己,過性很難相處,脾氣又差)
我說: 所以..... 小孩怎麼處理?
她說: 小孩就給你父母帶,請他們帶回鄉下老家
我說: 那妳呢?
她說: 我要補習,專心面對考試
(為了這件事情吵架很多次,老婆每次都要吵到半夜2點,甚至鬧自殺,後來岳父母出面,
岳父母說: 我女兒脾氣不好,到時候會跟你父母吵架; 她以前看過精神科,吃藥好幾個月,
情緒很不穩)
後來我讓她請育嬰假,小孩讓我父母帶,結果最近又開始鬧說要請育嬰假一年
我說: 你育嬰假半年,是到六月中,國考是七月, 為什麼要多請半年育嬰假?
她說: 萬一我考不上怎麼辦? 假如考不上,我要繼續補習,再考一年
我說: 那你這一年育嬰假都不帶小孩?
她說: 對!
我說: 全台灣有哪個人跟妳一樣! 育嬰假請一年卻不帶小孩!
她說: 反正我就是要這麼做!
(然後又是吵架,她甚至說要離婚,說了好幾次)
老婆跑去跟岳母說要請育嬰假一年的事情,
岳母當場罵她: 妳不帶小孩! 憑什麼請育嬰假一年!
(老婆就當場跟岳母吵起來)
最近也是一直鬧,除了罵我之外,也罵我父母親,
我真的不知道這婚姻可以維持多久
補充說明:
1. 小孩是她堅持要生的,岳父母也堅持要生; 我跟我爸媽都說順其自然,沒逼過她
2. 她看過精神科的事,我是婚後才知道,岳母說看精神科好幾個月; 婚前都沒跟我講
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