不想溝通 - 婚姻
By Megan
at 2011-11-27T11:27
at 2011-11-27T11:27
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我提不起勁,也不想溝通. 冷戰三個多月了
對方個性很好,大概我說什麼都好
我很厭倦 他很不男人,有時像個媽寶一樣
我覺得在他身邊,很沒有安全感
有時候我反而覺得回爸媽家或者他的爸媽家,心裡比較能夠放輕鬆
他讀書讀了很久,都30了,才出社會
相對當時我已經工作兩年了,每次聽他抱怨工作的事,我真的很看不慣
但我也不曉得該怎麼開口直說
好幾次看他上班遲到,我真的很不開心,
他的工作態度,在我看來真的很差,他也被開除了幾次,換了工作
也開始,我對經濟的問題很擔心
我以為跟他講我朋友的先生,同樣做電腦的,的求職過程,能給他點刺激
沒想到,有次他很不開心的,認為我在比較
我想也是吧,但在他身上,我看不出任何企圖心,我不知道這個家的未來在哪裡
因為他住在國外十年有了,我結婚後也跟著搬去那
老實說,要適應國外的生活,真的很不容易,語言,生活方面都是
到現在兩年了,我突然有種感覺,他並不能幫助我,因為他的社會經驗少之又少
他以前的生活,就是讀書,待實驗室,他也許有心,但他不知道該怎麼幫忙
我這幾年,在國外,真的辛苦,尤其一開始沒有朋友,更是無助
每次我們出門買東西,去餐廳,我總是那個跟服務生說話的人
我試著等他先回應,也告訴他要記得跟對方打招呼,提醒到我很怕他會煩
但是他不管講中文講英文,總是反應很慢,讓我覺得很丟臉
今年春天,我流產一次,他陪我去醫院, 一樣,他走在我後面,
由我去跟接洽人員問,醫生在哪一棟樓, 這更讓我感覺,凡事要靠自己
隔了幾個月後,他弟有事來我家,沒想到大家坐下來聊天,
他竟然一開口就說,你知道我們原本可能小孩嗎?
我跟他弟,兩個人頓時沉默. 我並不介意讓他弟知道,只是他提起的方式,真的讓人心酸
有一次,我跟他妹聊天.他妹說,他哥變很多,是變好.他以前很自閉,老是跟在其他人後面
我回家後,眼淚一直掉,有時候很抱怨,為什麼他的家人不把他的缺點告訴他
我知道,婚姻是我選擇的,我不能怪誰 但很多時候,真的很累
我們個性都屬於溫和,
我平常不發脾氣,但一生氣就可以不說話很久
這是我第二次了,超級不想裡他
幾星期前,我跟他說,我不滿意的地方
他竟然想個小孩一樣,站在那裏,
我很生氣,為什麼他不能跟我吵架,或者捍衛他自己的想法
我想知道該怎麼跟他溝通
還是我該去找婚姻諮詢
婚姻,真的好辛苦喔
我看著朋友期待男友,期待婚姻,我真羨慕哪樣的心情,單純
走入婚姻,很多辛苦之處,感覺是一個人扛,很孤獨.
有時候,偷偷想,等父母都不在了,在去離婚好了. = =
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對方個性很好,大概我說什麼都好
我很厭倦 他很不男人,有時像個媽寶一樣
我覺得在他身邊,很沒有安全感
有時候我反而覺得回爸媽家或者他的爸媽家,心裡比較能夠放輕鬆
他讀書讀了很久,都30了,才出社會
相對當時我已經工作兩年了,每次聽他抱怨工作的事,我真的很看不慣
但我也不曉得該怎麼開口直說
好幾次看他上班遲到,我真的很不開心,
他的工作態度,在我看來真的很差,他也被開除了幾次,換了工作
也開始,我對經濟的問題很擔心
我以為跟他講我朋友的先生,同樣做電腦的,的求職過程,能給他點刺激
沒想到,有次他很不開心的,認為我在比較
我想也是吧,但在他身上,我看不出任何企圖心,我不知道這個家的未來在哪裡
因為他住在國外十年有了,我結婚後也跟著搬去那
老實說,要適應國外的生活,真的很不容易,語言,生活方面都是
到現在兩年了,我突然有種感覺,他並不能幫助我,因為他的社會經驗少之又少
他以前的生活,就是讀書,待實驗室,他也許有心,但他不知道該怎麼幫忙
我這幾年,在國外,真的辛苦,尤其一開始沒有朋友,更是無助
每次我們出門買東西,去餐廳,我總是那個跟服務生說話的人
我試著等他先回應,也告訴他要記得跟對方打招呼,提醒到我很怕他會煩
但是他不管講中文講英文,總是反應很慢,讓我覺得很丟臉
今年春天,我流產一次,他陪我去醫院, 一樣,他走在我後面,
由我去跟接洽人員問,醫生在哪一棟樓, 這更讓我感覺,凡事要靠自己
隔了幾個月後,他弟有事來我家,沒想到大家坐下來聊天,
他竟然一開口就說,你知道我們原本可能小孩嗎?
我跟他弟,兩個人頓時沉默. 我並不介意讓他弟知道,只是他提起的方式,真的讓人心酸
有一次,我跟他妹聊天.他妹說,他哥變很多,是變好.他以前很自閉,老是跟在其他人後面
我回家後,眼淚一直掉,有時候很抱怨,為什麼他的家人不把他的缺點告訴他
我知道,婚姻是我選擇的,我不能怪誰 但很多時候,真的很累
我們個性都屬於溫和,
我平常不發脾氣,但一生氣就可以不說話很久
這是我第二次了,超級不想裡他
幾星期前,我跟他說,我不滿意的地方
他竟然想個小孩一樣,站在那裏,
我很生氣,為什麼他不能跟我吵架,或者捍衛他自己的想法
我想知道該怎麼跟他溝通
還是我該去找婚姻諮詢
婚姻,真的好辛苦喔
我看著朋友期待男友,期待婚姻,我真羨慕哪樣的心情,單純
走入婚姻,很多辛苦之處,感覺是一個人扛,很孤獨.
有時候,偷偷想,等父母都不在了,在去離婚好了. = =
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