「嫁出去的女兒潑出去的水」是這樣用的嗎 - 婚姻
By Puput
at 2011-11-08T14:16
at 2011-11-08T14:16
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就在前幾天
我外婆在家中摔倒,骨折住院
我就跟我老公說星期六去探望我外婆
回來後隔天我婆婆打電話來關心,並且問我們哪一天還要去
她說要跟我們一起去(不過目前是還沒去啦...)
我們去探望外婆離開醫院時,老公就好像不是很高興
然後聽到他媽媽也要去探望時
就突然說了...
老公:我覺得根本沒有必要一直去?
我:你怎麼這樣講?
老公:因為她是你外婆啊,如果是你奶奶我就覺得應該要去
我:.....................(內心一堆問號)
我:為什麼?
老公:因為嫁出去的女兒潑出去的水啊!外婆是你媽媽那邊的人
關係已經很遠了
我:(傻住)這句話不是這樣用的好嗎?況且現代哪有人還在用這句話
我:如果照這句話,如果對象是奶奶我也不用去才對啊,因為我嫁出去了啊
老公:可是你奶奶是你爸那邊的人啊
我:.....................
後來講一講他就說他不想跟我講了,說照我的意思就好了
但這句話真的是這樣用的嗎?還是我誤解了= =
而且我真的覺得這樣的說法讓我非常無奈啊
那天的小口角氣氛雖然是沒有吵起來
兩邊都很耐心解釋XD...就像討論那樣
但是過了兩天我心裡還是有一個疙瘩的感覺
剛剛又在男女版看到這句話
心情不是太好
就來抒發一下> <
感覺現在大家說男女平等
都還是假象啊...
嫁出去還是嫁出去了...那種感覺
對不起有點語無倫次
因為我是一方面覺得這句「嫁出去的女兒潑出去的水」讓我感到不開心
一方面又因為現代就算認為女生嫁出去依然可以顧原生家庭
但對原生家庭的定義,還是爸爸那邊...媽媽那邊的親戚就叫"太遠"親Orz
有一種無奈感
感謝大家聽我抱怨
不好意思
--
我外婆在家中摔倒,骨折住院
我就跟我老公說星期六去探望我外婆
回來後隔天我婆婆打電話來關心,並且問我們哪一天還要去
她說要跟我們一起去(不過目前是還沒去啦...)
我們去探望外婆離開醫院時,老公就好像不是很高興
然後聽到他媽媽也要去探望時
就突然說了...
老公:我覺得根本沒有必要一直去?
我:你怎麼這樣講?
老公:因為她是你外婆啊,如果是你奶奶我就覺得應該要去
我:.....................(內心一堆問號)
我:為什麼?
老公:因為嫁出去的女兒潑出去的水啊!外婆是你媽媽那邊的人
關係已經很遠了
我:(傻住)這句話不是這樣用的好嗎?況且現代哪有人還在用這句話
我:如果照這句話,如果對象是奶奶我也不用去才對啊,因為我嫁出去了啊
老公:可是你奶奶是你爸那邊的人啊
我:.....................
後來講一講他就說他不想跟我講了,說照我的意思就好了
但這句話真的是這樣用的嗎?還是我誤解了= =
而且我真的覺得這樣的說法讓我非常無奈啊
那天的小口角氣氛雖然是沒有吵起來
兩邊都很耐心解釋XD...就像討論那樣
但是過了兩天我心裡還是有一個疙瘩的感覺
剛剛又在男女版看到這句話
心情不是太好
就來抒發一下> <
感覺現在大家說男女平等
都還是假象啊...
嫁出去還是嫁出去了...那種感覺
對不起有點語無倫次
因為我是一方面覺得這句「嫁出去的女兒潑出去的水」讓我感到不開心
一方面又因為現代就算認為女生嫁出去依然可以顧原生家庭
但對原生家庭的定義,還是爸爸那邊...媽媽那邊的親戚就叫"太遠"親Orz
有一種無奈感
感謝大家聽我抱怨
不好意思
--
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