Round 1 - 婚姻
By Jessica
at 2011-10-17T14:54
at 2011-10-17T14:54
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晚上和丈夫一起看完資產負債表後
經過大概三分鐘的討論達成初步共識
準備隔天要做理性溝通
孰料婆婆不知為何心急著打電話給丈夫
對話大致如下
婆婆:她拿東西給你了沒?
丈夫:什麼東西?
婆婆:她答應要給我的東西啊!!
丈夫:她哪有答應要給妳什麼東西
婆婆:我有跟她說把資料存摺印章準備好給你拿來啊
丈夫:妳說完就掛電話,我太太有說過好嗎
婆婆:那你明天不會回家嗎
丈夫:不會,我會帶太太去xx那裡(小姑家 婆家打開窗子就能對話的距離
媽妳再過來吧
婆婆:東西直接拿來就好囉嗦這麼多幹嘛
丈夫:那妳房間鎖著當倉庫用就好大興土木要幹嘛
婆婆:你懂什麼啊!!你看看你怎麼跟媽媽說話的,你老婆把你教壞了
丈夫:她是我妻子我太太不是老婆 (因為我小他七歲 他不肯我也不想這麼被稱呼
我很累,明天再說吧 媽晚安 (掛電話
讓我們把時間倒回星期五的下午
和小姑通話中
小姑:媽要重新裝潢???拜託!!我才搬去隔壁沒兩天,這樣不就很吵
我:媽要不要裝潢是她的事,那是她的房子呀
小姑:那爸咧?
我:我不想什麼事都把爸爸請出來擋,而且爸去禪修了我們遇不到
小姑:這種事憑我一個人的力量說不動啊
我:我沒打算說動媽什麼呀,房子是她的,我們都管不著她想怎樣
只是這件事還是有牽聯到我們,所以我希望可以借妳的地方跟媽談談
順便請妳當公証人免得媽又在外面亂講
小姑:當然可以啊,我要幫妳說什麼還是我們要套好什麼嗎
我:都不用,只要你們忍住別對她大聲說話就是幫我了
星期六早上帶著相關資料到小姑家
聊了一會兒婆婆出現,一臉不爽的坐下
婆婆:東西咧?
我:媽~妳不覺得一次要我付一大筆錢,應該詳細討論一下
婆婆:反正妳不能出爾反爾
我:可是我從頭到尾沒答應呀
婆婆:妳憑什麼不答應?硬要搬出去又不回來煮飯打掃
現在又亂發誓不回家,連中秋節也不回家!!妳要發誓是妳的事
把大家都算進去做什麼
我:這我們不是討論過了,我不回家也沒讓大哥不回家呀
我也提過請一個人每個星期去打掃兩次,是媽不肯的耶
婆婆:妳又不付工人錢,幹嘛請陌生人來打掃
我:你們弄亂的房子,為什麼是我要出錢?
婆婆:妳聽不懂喔!!因為妳硬要搬出去,我年紀一大把了為什麼還要這麼歹命打掃!!!
丈夫:媽~我又不是娶她回來當傭人的
婆婆:當媳婦就是要這樣,我也是這樣過來的
有哪個媳婦是嫁人了什麼事都不用做,放兩個老人家自生自滅的
小姑:我啊。妳不是教我女人要多為自己想,沒和公婆住是我的福氣
婆婆:........................
就這樣,直接偏離主題,他們一家人鬥嘴了快半小時,才有時間進入今天的重點
欲知詳情,請待下回分解
餵小孩去
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經過大概三分鐘的討論達成初步共識
準備隔天要做理性溝通
孰料婆婆不知為何心急著打電話給丈夫
對話大致如下
婆婆:她拿東西給你了沒?
丈夫:什麼東西?
婆婆:她答應要給我的東西啊!!
丈夫:她哪有答應要給妳什麼東西
婆婆:我有跟她說把資料存摺印章準備好給你拿來啊
丈夫:妳說完就掛電話,我太太有說過好嗎
婆婆:那你明天不會回家嗎
丈夫:不會,我會帶太太去xx那裡(小姑家 婆家打開窗子就能對話的距離
媽妳再過來吧
婆婆:東西直接拿來就好囉嗦這麼多幹嘛
丈夫:那妳房間鎖著當倉庫用就好大興土木要幹嘛
婆婆:你懂什麼啊!!你看看你怎麼跟媽媽說話的,你老婆把你教壞了
丈夫:她是我妻子我太太不是老婆 (因為我小他七歲 他不肯我也不想這麼被稱呼
我很累,明天再說吧 媽晚安 (掛電話
讓我們把時間倒回星期五的下午
和小姑通話中
小姑:媽要重新裝潢???拜託!!我才搬去隔壁沒兩天,這樣不就很吵
我:媽要不要裝潢是她的事,那是她的房子呀
小姑:那爸咧?
我:我不想什麼事都把爸爸請出來擋,而且爸去禪修了我們遇不到
小姑:這種事憑我一個人的力量說不動啊
我:我沒打算說動媽什麼呀,房子是她的,我們都管不著她想怎樣
只是這件事還是有牽聯到我們,所以我希望可以借妳的地方跟媽談談
順便請妳當公証人免得媽又在外面亂講
小姑:當然可以啊,我要幫妳說什麼還是我們要套好什麼嗎
我:都不用,只要你們忍住別對她大聲說話就是幫我了
星期六早上帶著相關資料到小姑家
聊了一會兒婆婆出現,一臉不爽的坐下
婆婆:東西咧?
我:媽~妳不覺得一次要我付一大筆錢,應該詳細討論一下
婆婆:反正妳不能出爾反爾
我:可是我從頭到尾沒答應呀
婆婆:妳憑什麼不答應?硬要搬出去又不回來煮飯打掃
現在又亂發誓不回家,連中秋節也不回家!!妳要發誓是妳的事
把大家都算進去做什麼
我:這我們不是討論過了,我不回家也沒讓大哥不回家呀
我也提過請一個人每個星期去打掃兩次,是媽不肯的耶
婆婆:妳又不付工人錢,幹嘛請陌生人來打掃
我:你們弄亂的房子,為什麼是我要出錢?
婆婆:妳聽不懂喔!!因為妳硬要搬出去,我年紀一大把了為什麼還要這麼歹命打掃!!!
丈夫:媽~我又不是娶她回來當傭人的
婆婆:當媳婦就是要這樣,我也是這樣過來的
有哪個媳婦是嫁人了什麼事都不用做,放兩個老人家自生自滅的
小姑:我啊。妳不是教我女人要多為自己想,沒和公婆住是我的福氣
婆婆:........................
就這樣,直接偏離主題,他們一家人鬥嘴了快半小時,才有時間進入今天的重點
欲知詳情,請待下回分解
餵小孩去
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