該不該生個二寶? - 婚姻
By Kelly
at 2011-10-17T09:13
at 2011-10-17T09:13
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其實我有點不確定該在這邊問還是媽寶版.不知道自己算不算是跑錯地方了?
我也知道問這種問題實在是很笨,該不該生要夫妻倆自己商量才對...
而且我老大已經四足歲,之前我都是很堅持一個就好
即使四年來婆婆不停的催我再生,甚至多次在眾人面前問我是否避孕
我仍表面應付說沒避孕,懷了就生。其實根本沒打算要有老二...
直到前兩天,我婆婆又來催生,他說連我小姑都打算考慮生老二了
因為我小姑有個20年的好朋友,幾天前好友家裡發生火災
一夜之間,這個好朋友同時失去了父母。
雖然心裡難過,可是再怎麼痛苦該處理的事還是得趕快處理完
幸好好友還有兩個雙胞胎弟弟,姊弟三人可以互相照顧,有事也可商量
小姑去看了好朋友,回家後就開始想...如果有一天,我們夫妻出事了,我兒子一個人不是
很可憐嗎?連個幫忙或是講話的對象都沒有...
同樣的情況發生在我們夫妻身上也是一樣,因為我們也是一個獨生子
而且,我小姑晚婚,她比我大七歲,今年已經40了。
她本來是比我更堅持生一個就好的,連我婆婆都不贊成她再生,怕他高齡危險
所以當天我婆婆拿這個例子來跟我講的時候,我真的動搖了
我自己有兩個妹妹,姊妹感情不錯。也會講電話或是一起逛街吃東西
雖然我是大姐,但從小到大總是兩個妹妹照顧我多,因為我總是少一根筋
如果我媽沒有生下我兩個妹妹,我的人生會少很多樂趣...
那,我是否可以決定要不要給我兒子手足親情呢?
如果我因為自己害怕再懷孕生產的過程而拒絕再生
如果我因為自己害怕經濟負擔太大而拒絕再生
這樣的媽媽,是不是真的很自私?
喔,對了...老公的意見是很重要的...但他沒有意見!
要生就生,不生就繼續敷衍我婆婆。以上。
若我跑錯版了,不好意思請跟我說怎麼刪文,感謝大家
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我也知道問這種問題實在是很笨,該不該生要夫妻倆自己商量才對...
而且我老大已經四足歲,之前我都是很堅持一個就好
即使四年來婆婆不停的催我再生,甚至多次在眾人面前問我是否避孕
我仍表面應付說沒避孕,懷了就生。其實根本沒打算要有老二...
直到前兩天,我婆婆又來催生,他說連我小姑都打算考慮生老二了
因為我小姑有個20年的好朋友,幾天前好友家裡發生火災
一夜之間,這個好朋友同時失去了父母。
雖然心裡難過,可是再怎麼痛苦該處理的事還是得趕快處理完
幸好好友還有兩個雙胞胎弟弟,姊弟三人可以互相照顧,有事也可商量
小姑去看了好朋友,回家後就開始想...如果有一天,我們夫妻出事了,我兒子一個人不是
很可憐嗎?連個幫忙或是講話的對象都沒有...
同樣的情況發生在我們夫妻身上也是一樣,因為我們也是一個獨生子
而且,我小姑晚婚,她比我大七歲,今年已經40了。
她本來是比我更堅持生一個就好的,連我婆婆都不贊成她再生,怕他高齡危險
所以當天我婆婆拿這個例子來跟我講的時候,我真的動搖了
我自己有兩個妹妹,姊妹感情不錯。也會講電話或是一起逛街吃東西
雖然我是大姐,但從小到大總是兩個妹妹照顧我多,因為我總是少一根筋
如果我媽沒有生下我兩個妹妹,我的人生會少很多樂趣...
那,我是否可以決定要不要給我兒子手足親情呢?
如果我因為自己害怕再懷孕生產的過程而拒絕再生
如果我因為自己害怕經濟負擔太大而拒絕再生
這樣的媽媽,是不是真的很自私?
喔,對了...老公的意見是很重要的...但他沒有意見!
要生就生,不生就繼續敷衍我婆婆。以上。
若我跑錯版了,不好意思請跟我說怎麼刪文,感謝大家
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