離婚後的小孩照顧問題 - 離婚
By James
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最近在考慮兩件事。
1丶帶小孩搬出我爸媽家
2丶小孩長大後,可能去找我前妻住
離婚後,如果沒有家人幫忙,要怎麼
帶兩個小孩,確實是一個大問題。但
持續找家人幫忙,好像也不太好,所
以在考慮帶小孩搬出來,只是有幾個
問題要考慮
1.1 房租負擔
1.2 早上小孩起床丶更衣丶吃早餐丶上
學什麼的,會和我上班時間衝突
1.3 下午學校放學和才藝班接送
1.4 晚餐
房租負擔,我想找我前妻幫忙負擔小孩
部分的一半,不過可能性應該不高;我
上班後,小孩自己起床丶更衣丶做早餐
和走路上學,可能可以解決時間衝突問
題;下午接送或許小孩可以自己解決;
晚餐或許可以用給錢的方式解決。
至於小孩長大後,如果想去我前妻那,
我覺得或許可以談看看,不過我前妻應
該不會提一個怎麼照顧安排小孩的提案,
然後跟我討論,這樣應該很難真的談這
種事。
我把兩個小孩的安親班丶英文班+英文
家教丶數學家教丶鋼琴一對一課程,以
及小五私中班課程的費用,加在一起大
概統計了一下,一個月平均要三萬元以
上。現在兒子慢慢長大,也希望有自己的
獨立房間,這個換算成具體的房租,也
是一筆開銷。
我在想,如果我前妻要小孩去跟她長住,
而不是只有假日帶出去玩,要求她擬一
份小孩的培訓照顧計劃,以及對應的財務
可行性分析,應該不為過。
如果她提不出來,或者不願討論,那什麼
離婚時「我前妻要小孩,但我不肯給」的
謠言,應該就可以休矣了。
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1丶帶小孩搬出我爸媽家
2丶小孩長大後,可能去找我前妻住
離婚後,如果沒有家人幫忙,要怎麼
帶兩個小孩,確實是一個大問題。但
持續找家人幫忙,好像也不太好,所
以在考慮帶小孩搬出來,只是有幾個
問題要考慮
1.1 房租負擔
1.2 早上小孩起床丶更衣丶吃早餐丶上
學什麼的,會和我上班時間衝突
1.3 下午學校放學和才藝班接送
1.4 晚餐
房租負擔,我想找我前妻幫忙負擔小孩
部分的一半,不過可能性應該不高;我
上班後,小孩自己起床丶更衣丶做早餐
和走路上學,可能可以解決時間衝突問
題;下午接送或許小孩可以自己解決;
晚餐或許可以用給錢的方式解決。
至於小孩長大後,如果想去我前妻那,
我覺得或許可以談看看,不過我前妻應
該不會提一個怎麼照顧安排小孩的提案,
然後跟我討論,這樣應該很難真的談這
種事。
我把兩個小孩的安親班丶英文班+英文
家教丶數學家教丶鋼琴一對一課程,以
及小五私中班課程的費用,加在一起大
概統計了一下,一個月平均要三萬元以
上。現在兒子慢慢長大,也希望有自己的
獨立房間,這個換算成具體的房租,也
是一筆開銷。
我在想,如果我前妻要小孩去跟她長住,
而不是只有假日帶出去玩,要求她擬一
份小孩的培訓照顧計劃,以及對應的財務
可行性分析,應該不為過。
如果她提不出來,或者不願討論,那什麼
離婚時「我前妻要小孩,但我不肯給」的
謠言,應該就可以休矣了。
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