關於板務上的莫名其妙 - 婚姻
By Oscar
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有時實在也不想多說,不過有些觀念上的事,我還是覺的不說不可
1.任何一版的版主在版務的執行能力上,還是要有基本的分辨智慧
用[公告]時代表你是版主,應求中立、慎重不帶任何攻擊、尊重板規,
當然也不宜在簽名檔或標題上故做文章,這不是言論自由與否的問題
而是你自已尊不尊重自已正在擔任的這個職務
在一般發文和推文,你應體會自已是一般版友,不應在推文或文章中,
以職權威脅他人,忽而版主,忽而又想跟版友一起哈啦,既然熱心擔任
職務,也都是成熟個體,分際應該在拿捏上沒那麼困難才是,有許多他版
的版務很年輕,也維持的很好,現兩位版務是否該好好思考,何時適合
亂哈啦,何時應該莊重點,成年人的社會生活不也是如此嗎?
2.板主是男是女並無所謂,請別把不聽他人忠言當成強勢而崇拜
個人認為是一種錯誤,這種事與男女無關,與自已的個性較有關係,
另外,個人覺的把版主自已的風格帶入版上,只要是無違版規,
並無妨礙,如同現版主l大一心想維持的自由風格,而且他對他人的批評
也都還保有風度,值得嘉許,但在第1點上,似乎還有改進的空間
3.別把不爽就去罷免我啊,放嘴上,BBS上的管理制度是有相當錯誤性
當你的評斷被極大多數的版友理性反對時,你應該就知所進退,
管板是辛苦的,當你反到成為了紛亂的源頭時
與你擔任版務的初衷難道還相同嗎? 人因錯誤、學習而成長,
放下....你又損失了什麼?
4.一直強調和諧,只會造成把主流派的意見放大的效果,過往本版被稱
媳婦版 就是因為不論對錯,往往流為對婆婆或對先生的大肆批評
但主角身分一換,同樣的事情卻看法完全不同,有點讓人啼笑皆非
讓本版的意見,參考價值降低許多,如今開始有了許多不同的想法加入
比過往的一言堂要好的多,也多了很多不同的主題如bibi這類的搞笑文章
婚姻本來就是多元的,儘量讓妳自已快樂,也了解到其他人不同的看法
比鬣狗式的一湧而上有意義多了,要不然,把電視打開看看政治新聞
不就好了
別過度樂觀,但也別把悲傷氣氛過度渲染,或許就有人是看
著你的文章而體會婚姻,為何不提倡平等而互相尊重的兩性相處
有技巧的經營妳的婚姻,也保有適度自信的過一家庭的生活
自由,財務等....進入婚姻後一定會有所犧牲,溝通協調
也會取得妳其他方面的滿足,婚姻如同天枰一樣,還是要看整體
整體能平衡,那生活細節上,實在不需太計較
記得某次的調查結果,大部人覺得"進入婚姻"是人生中非常滿意
的一件事,而"有了下一代"更是最滿意的那一項,祝福大家都能在
婚姻中找到幸福的動力。
............囉囉唆唆的寫在 我對某版主開始感到不奈的前夕 joeyptt 9/17
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