過年問題 - 婚姻

By Ula
at 2012-11-26T21:23
at 2012-11-26T21:23
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我目前懷孕(雙胞胎)四個月,
孕期從一開始就不太順,幾乎沒辦法吃東西,瘦了八公斤,
這星期開始,雖然比之前有精神些,也略能進食,但還是不舒服。
這兩天跟另一半討論到過年的問題,
他爸媽家在花蓮,我們住桃園。
他跟父母的關係很緊密,
雖然平均每個月他跟家人都會見到面(他爸媽上來桃園或他回去花蓮),
但過年時他很希望能夠空出一大段時間(至少七天)回去陪伴家人。
他家人對我很好,跟他回家我不需要幫忙,
只是我身體不太好,只要略有奔波就容易生病。
去年陪他回花蓮過年(火車),我整個過年都在生病,
回台北後(那時住台北)才檢查出是呼吸道細菌感染,纏綿病榻三個月才好。
前兩天陪他回花蓮(開車),我回程路上吃了氣味重的東西,結果一路從宜蘭吐回桃園。
另外,因為孕期關係,我的飲食習慣改變(得吃多餐/清淡),跟他家的飲食習慣不合,
再加上他爸媽會打呼,我又有點認床,晚上沒辦法睡好。
我人不大隻(158cm),所以朋友們都說我的孕期後期會很辛苦,
想到過年時我已經進入孕期後期,
不管是坐火車還是開車,幾個小時的車程對我來說實在很折磨,
七天以上待在花蓮,沒辦法好好吃、好好睡、好好休息,
所以今年我實在很卻步。
昨天沒討論出什麼結果,
我說不然今年分開過年,他回他家,我留在我們的家休息,
但他不放心我一個人待在桃園,
也不放心我一起下花蓮然後自己提早回桃園。
他提議不然他先下去過年,初四再上來帶我回花蓮,
我說這樣奔波太累了吧,而且他上來我大概就不想放他再下去了。
板友們有什麼好建議嗎?謝謝大家。
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孕期從一開始就不太順,幾乎沒辦法吃東西,瘦了八公斤,
這星期開始,雖然比之前有精神些,也略能進食,但還是不舒服。
這兩天跟另一半討論到過年的問題,
他爸媽家在花蓮,我們住桃園。
他跟父母的關係很緊密,
雖然平均每個月他跟家人都會見到面(他爸媽上來桃園或他回去花蓮),
但過年時他很希望能夠空出一大段時間(至少七天)回去陪伴家人。
他家人對我很好,跟他回家我不需要幫忙,
只是我身體不太好,只要略有奔波就容易生病。
去年陪他回花蓮過年(火車),我整個過年都在生病,
回台北後(那時住台北)才檢查出是呼吸道細菌感染,纏綿病榻三個月才好。
前兩天陪他回花蓮(開車),我回程路上吃了氣味重的東西,結果一路從宜蘭吐回桃園。
另外,因為孕期關係,我的飲食習慣改變(得吃多餐/清淡),跟他家的飲食習慣不合,
再加上他爸媽會打呼,我又有點認床,晚上沒辦法睡好。
我人不大隻(158cm),所以朋友們都說我的孕期後期會很辛苦,
想到過年時我已經進入孕期後期,
不管是坐火車還是開車,幾個小時的車程對我來說實在很折磨,
七天以上待在花蓮,沒辦法好好吃、好好睡、好好休息,
所以今年我實在很卻步。
昨天沒討論出什麼結果,
我說不然今年分開過年,他回他家,我留在我們的家休息,
但他不放心我一個人待在桃園,
也不放心我一起下花蓮然後自己提早回桃園。
他提議不然他先下去過年,初四再上來帶我回花蓮,
我說這樣奔波太累了吧,而且他上來我大概就不想放他再下去了。
板友們有什麼好建議嗎?謝謝大家。
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