這樣的要求會太過份嗎?(文長) - 婚姻
By Sarah
at 2011-10-23T22:17
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老公目前人在歐洲工作,而我則在台灣上班,計畫明年要過去唸書,
結束長距離。在此之前我們已經長距離戀愛+婚姻近一年半了。
因為我們都相當獨立也信任對方,加上網路發達聯絡頻繁,
因此長距離對我們來講不算是太大的困難。
但還是努力希望快點相聚就是~
但是最近出現一點小小的意見不同,
就是他身處的北歐地區很少華人(台灣人更是稀少)
所以他對於可以他地遇同樣講中文的朋友相當開心,也會希望保持聯繫~
之前他認識一個香港來的交換女學生,在離開回國家因為已經退租了,
但還想留下來多玩些日子,所以到處住朋友家,聽說因此被朋友的室友討厭
,然後他跟我提到說:要不然讓她來借住我這邊。
我聽到的時候有點光火,也跟他解釋我完全不能接受這種事,況且你住的是
套房!!!雖然房間有門隔起來也一樣~~一男一女共處一室還過夜,我絕對不
能接受。你要幫人家,我還寧願你借錢給她住旅館呢!!況且人家要留下來
自己應該也有計畫和心理準備了,真的需要你瞎操心嗎@@
他聽了之後也接受了。他說他也沒想那麼多,只是想幫那個女生而已。這件事就
到此結束。
然後前兩天又很開心的跟我說,他遇到一個台灣來的女生,還一起約吃中餐聊聊
我就問了大概聊了什麼,對方是什麼背景~~然後正不正阿??他笑說~算是個正姐囉~
原先我不以為意,把這件事跟他的姐姐和姐夫說,姐夫聽了馬上講:快去顧ㄤ~~
然後我就笑笑的跟他提到姐夫的反應,他就還滿正經的說,哪有說人家正,就普普
而已阿~~~
我聽了不知道為啥,就覺得你怎麼有極力撇清的感覺~不過反正也沒啥大不了,只是
突然想到之前香港女生的事,再加上他喜歡邀朋友回家吃飯
(為了省錢他三餐都自己煮),
我就他說:我先跟你說喔~請你不要單獨邀那個臺灣女生回家吃飯~~
他就說:哇~你還要特別叮嚀喔~這麼在意喔~
我說:我的底限就是不能接受你孤男寡女在家
總之,他最後雖然是接受了,會照我說的做,但還是跟我提說他要抱怨一下,
這樣他找台灣女生吃飯就要再找其他人一起(這有很困難嗎??)
不能隨心想邀誰吃飯就邀誰~~
他之前已經有被一個泰國女生邀請到她家吃飯,雖然人家有很棒的老公,但我還是覺得
不太蘇服~但上次香港女生的事再加上他本來有打算邀台灣女生單獨回家吃飯
的事~讓我不得不先小人後君子跟他講清楚說明白。我可不想事情發生以後
夫妻為了這種事吵架~
我跟他說:我完全信任你,我又不是說你單獨邀哪個女生回家就懷疑你怎樣?
但是那就是一種感覺,我就不喜歡我老公跟別人單獨共處一室在私
密空間的家裡,知道了我就是不蘇服~~~
不過我想知道這種想法跟要求會很機車或是過份嗎????就是要求他不要單獨
邀女生回家吃飯。還是我真的太計較了~
麻煩大家給一下意見了~~感謝大家^^
PS:他住的地方雖是套房~但空間還滿大~房間浴室廚房飯廳都是各自獨立的。
他也很多男性朋友~也都會邀回家吃飯~沒有特別講是因為我又不在意他
帶男生回家XD~~
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