該繼續租屋嗎? - 婚姻
By Charlotte
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一開始結婚和先生住在公婆家
公婆家是30坪的公寓
同住的還有一個小姑
另外還有婆婆幫大姑帶的兩個小孩
(一個兩歲多 一個四歲多 小的還沒上幼稚園)
嫁進去以後
因為空間問題非常不習慣
(先生的房間是很標準的單人房,再多住一個人
多塞一個人的東西 真的是連走路的空間都沒有)
加上多人共用衛浴
常要排隊洗澡
結婚一年半後,和先生考慮在婆家附近租屋
我們看了很久 真的很難有喜歡的
有喜歡的價錢又太貴
剛好這時候
有親戚房子空著 願意便宜租給我們
全新大樓 全新裝潢 一房一廳
月租一萬含管理費
(他要買給小孩住
但小孩在國外也還要兩三年才回來,
如果再攻讀碩士 可能更久)
在新北生活機能也很好
但缺點就是離我的公司上班不方便
離婆家騎車約20分鐘
和先生考量後,覺得租金不貴
就搬去了
但為了上班方便
平日還是住在婆家
(和先生都屬於高工時 早出晚歸)
假日的時候我們就到租屋處過過小夫妻的生活
因為很多東西都搬到租屋處
所以先生原本的房間空間也變大了
假日也不用再應付婆家的人跟他們的客人
(婆家很好客)
可以在租屋處好好休息
但最近先生說
考量到我年底要生,
之後是由婆婆幫忙帶
大姑的小孩之後會由大姑婆家接手
而同住的小姑明年也要結婚了
所以小姑的房間會空出來
家裡以後不會那麼壅擠了
所以希望我們把租屋處停掉
再整個搬回婆家
我覺得先生說的也沒錯
畢竟孩子出生了
開銷會變大
這一萬能省下來給孩子似乎比較好
現在很猶豫該不該把租屋處退掉
雖然覺得先生說的沒錯
但平常工作那麼忙
有一個可以週末躲起來不用面對婆家的地方
對我卻很重要。
先生現在尊重我的意見
我卻天人交戰
希望大家能給一點意見
謝謝。
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公婆家是30坪的公寓
同住的還有一個小姑
另外還有婆婆幫大姑帶的兩個小孩
(一個兩歲多 一個四歲多 小的還沒上幼稚園)
嫁進去以後
因為空間問題非常不習慣
(先生的房間是很標準的單人房,再多住一個人
多塞一個人的東西 真的是連走路的空間都沒有)
加上多人共用衛浴
常要排隊洗澡
結婚一年半後,和先生考慮在婆家附近租屋
我們看了很久 真的很難有喜歡的
有喜歡的價錢又太貴
剛好這時候
有親戚房子空著 願意便宜租給我們
全新大樓 全新裝潢 一房一廳
月租一萬含管理費
(他要買給小孩住
但小孩在國外也還要兩三年才回來,
如果再攻讀碩士 可能更久)
在新北生活機能也很好
但缺點就是離我的公司上班不方便
離婆家騎車約20分鐘
和先生考量後,覺得租金不貴
就搬去了
但為了上班方便
平日還是住在婆家
(和先生都屬於高工時 早出晚歸)
假日的時候我們就到租屋處過過小夫妻的生活
因為很多東西都搬到租屋處
所以先生原本的房間空間也變大了
假日也不用再應付婆家的人跟他們的客人
(婆家很好客)
可以在租屋處好好休息
但最近先生說
考量到我年底要生,
之後是由婆婆幫忙帶
大姑的小孩之後會由大姑婆家接手
而同住的小姑明年也要結婚了
所以小姑的房間會空出來
家裡以後不會那麼壅擠了
所以希望我們把租屋處停掉
再整個搬回婆家
我覺得先生說的也沒錯
畢竟孩子出生了
開銷會變大
這一萬能省下來給孩子似乎比較好
現在很猶豫該不該把租屋處退掉
雖然覺得先生說的沒錯
但平常工作那麼忙
有一個可以週末躲起來不用面對婆家的地方
對我卻很重要。
先生現在尊重我的意見
我卻天人交戰
希望大家能給一點意見
謝謝。
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