該如何釋懷? 心理有結... - 婚姻
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po文的現在 其實心情很不好 很想哭 找不到人說內心話 想藉由此版給我一點安慰
最近發生一些事
小姑洗碗事件 1. (詳情編號 17982)
因太晚去洗碗 害小姑洗碗,導致小姑跟婆婆發牢騷 說我都故意拖很晚才洗碗
讓婆婆也認為我真的有在故意拖時間,且婆婆也只是認為是小姑太急著要洗碗槽乾淨
而主動去洗碗 而非認為洗碗是大家的責任 也不會認為是先生沒幫忙
(婆婆重男輕女 以前從不會叫先生做事,有時候先生幫忙洗碗 婆婆就會覺得先生很體貼
很疼我 所以替我分擔家事)
照顧小孩事件 2.
若是回婆家 其實先生很少照顧小孩 都是我再追著小孩跑(1y6m) 追著餵飯
幫小孩洗澡 餵奶 陪玩 哄睡...,先生會做的頂多是我沒空幫小孩換尿布時 會幫忙換,
幫忙將洗澡水倒掉 (這些都還是我請先生幫忙 才會做的事)
跟先生反映過 他說會改 但是常常是嘴巴說說 下次又故態盟發, 跟他說了幾次
性子就會起來 講不得,認為我都在數落他
房貸借款事件 3. (詳情編號 17846)
房子最近要交屋了,原先婆婆說房子要登記在先生名下, 但是在跟銀行貸款時
銀行行員說 用我的名字貸款會比較優惠(我收入較高),跟婆婆告之後,婆婆才又改口說
那登記共有 這樣才會同心
(但是在更早 還沒買房前 婆婆就曾允諾我 說之後要是買房一定登記共有,不會把媳婦
當外人看,但是到了真的簽約買房時 又跟我說 希望我能體諒她當媽媽的心情,希望把
房子登記給兒子)
變來變去的結果 現在變成房子共有 借款人是我,但是這樣的轉變 內心很多感觸
說不把媳婦當外人看 但是等事情真正發生了 就真的把媳婦當外人看了
說的跟做的有落差
哀....林林總總 大大小小的事 是我把事情都看得太重了嗎? 該如何釋懷?
謝謝大家 聽我發牢騷,不好意思了
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