討厭被拿來比 - 結婚
By Olivia
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一定要先講:
不 爽 不 要 結
不 爽 不 要 結
不 爽 不 要 結
: 推 LisaShie :那為什麼要付小聘? 08/11 10:55
: → namie520 :我爸媽在意 但他爸媽覺得 小聘這種東西 當然事後是會 08/11 10:59
: → namie520 :給女兒(??) 我也一定會還他兒子(??) 那幹嘛 08/11 10:59
: → namie520 :繞一圈 這不是我男友說的 事後來我去他家 他父母說的 08/11 11:00
: → namie520 :雖然我家最後的確會這樣 但提親當場 有必要當場擺臉 08/11 11:00
: → namie520 :色嗎 唉 08/11 11:00
要疼女兒就自己疼,
拿人家的錢,再來說「我疼我女兒」是哪樁?
人家不能疼兒子嗎?
人家給了兒子一筆結婚基金,讓他來疼你家女兒,真的很有德了..
那你家還想挖些什麼?
合辦婚禮,省錢省事你們就點頭,
挖不到「疼女兒的小聘」就不爽,就批評客家人、詛咒客家姻親了...
這是什麼惡毒的邏輯?!
*****
他父母堅持公平原則是錯在哪?
你/你家有什麼資格叫他們不公平?親家這麼大,還管人家家規嗎?
提親當場,明明是你和你男友沒有事先和家人溝通好,
明明就是你們兩個很差勁..
如果說他父母擺臉色,
那你父母臉色很好嗎?你父母不也很堅持地盧了三次嗎?
別說小輩不能講話來推卸牽拖,
自己沒能力在第一時間處理妥當就承認吧!
ps.男方來我家提親,
親家公有發生小不禮貌的行為,我就出聲化解他。該做就做啊!
*****
你男友自己錢存不夠,態度軟弱,不能盡如后意地娶老婆,
是他沒能耐,怪他父母的公平原則幹嘛?
「聘金他先出,你婚後在還他」提議很無聊,
和「拿別人錢疼自己女兒」一樣無聊
你講的是FU才是FU,
那他的FU呢?不重要?
你男友能力不足態度搖擺,你不體諒、自己也不願意去做,
這種婚結來幹嘛啊?
自己的父母自己搞定,
你在罵未來公婆的時候,顯然應該是罵自己男友...罵錯人了...
然而反觀起來,你也沒搞定自己父母啊!
心偏一邊也要有個平衡,有個譜,醫生才能救。
*****
最後請記住,
如果男方家/男友出了聘金錢,
你就要感恩孝順伺候人家,別忘了你家的「禮俗」
不要講「俗」而不講「禮」,
這樣教育的成果不太好喔~
也請勿妄想「還錢就贖身」,沒有這麼簡單...
*****
如果你有一點理性,
可以了解自己說過的話多麼刻薄,掃射了多少無辜的人,
你就能明白,
...當你老公...前景堪慮...
--
不 爽 不 要 結
不 爽 不 要 結
不 爽 不 要 結
: 推 LisaShie :那為什麼要付小聘? 08/11 10:55
: → namie520 :我爸媽在意 但他爸媽覺得 小聘這種東西 當然事後是會 08/11 10:59
: → namie520 :給女兒(??) 我也一定會還他兒子(??) 那幹嘛 08/11 10:59
: → namie520 :繞一圈 這不是我男友說的 事後來我去他家 他父母說的 08/11 11:00
: → namie520 :雖然我家最後的確會這樣 但提親當場 有必要當場擺臉 08/11 11:00
: → namie520 :色嗎 唉 08/11 11:00
要疼女兒就自己疼,
拿人家的錢,再來說「我疼我女兒」是哪樁?
人家不能疼兒子嗎?
人家給了兒子一筆結婚基金,讓他來疼你家女兒,真的很有德了..
那你家還想挖些什麼?
合辦婚禮,省錢省事你們就點頭,
挖不到「疼女兒的小聘」就不爽,就批評客家人、詛咒客家姻親了...
這是什麼惡毒的邏輯?!
*****
他父母堅持公平原則是錯在哪?
你/你家有什麼資格叫他們不公平?親家這麼大,還管人家家規嗎?
提親當場,明明是你和你男友沒有事先和家人溝通好,
明明就是你們兩個很差勁..
如果說他父母擺臉色,
那你父母臉色很好嗎?你父母不也很堅持地盧了三次嗎?
別說小輩不能講話來推卸牽拖,
自己沒能力在第一時間處理妥當就承認吧!
ps.男方來我家提親,
親家公有發生小不禮貌的行為,我就出聲化解他。該做就做啊!
*****
你男友自己錢存不夠,態度軟弱,不能盡如后意地娶老婆,
是他沒能耐,怪他父母的公平原則幹嘛?
「聘金他先出,你婚後在還他」提議很無聊,
和「拿別人錢疼自己女兒」一樣無聊
你講的是FU才是FU,
那他的FU呢?不重要?
你男友能力不足態度搖擺,你不體諒、自己也不願意去做,
這種婚結來幹嘛啊?
自己的父母自己搞定,
你在罵未來公婆的時候,顯然應該是罵自己男友...罵錯人了...
然而反觀起來,你也沒搞定自己父母啊!
心偏一邊也要有個平衡,有個譜,醫生才能救。
*****
最後請記住,
如果男方家/男友出了聘金錢,
你就要感恩孝順伺候人家,別忘了你家的「禮俗」
不要講「俗」而不講「禮」,
這樣教育的成果不太好喔~
也請勿妄想「還錢就贖身」,沒有這麼簡單...
*****
如果你有一點理性,
可以了解自己說過的話多麼刻薄,掃射了多少無辜的人,
你就能明白,
...當你老公...前景堪慮...
--
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